<p>I like what lookingforward, ucberkleyalumni, mimi, and a couple others said.</p>
<p>Like one person said, many people take care of their families and cannot move away or afford to move the entire family with them. Just groceries are expensive (good thing there is grocery outlet, discount stores; free food programs for those who cannot get enough aid) and transportation. Cars break down and it costs much money to fix them. Books are pricey, but amazon and buying from other students helps with that. I’m the only one contributing in my elderly, single parent, disabled household by working and going to college, where I get financial aid, thankfully in California which has cal grants and generous aid to its low income residents. I work part time, too, with FWS. IT ALL WORKS!!!</p>
<p>I hope anyone in high school would know what I didn’t: you can get financial aid and make it. Not having counselors, guidance, teachers, the school not noticing you can be tough, but though they ignored me there and didn’t notice/care about the 3.6 GPA (and paying attention to people who are better connected with the school, usually those better off, as others mentioned), I have a 4.0 cumulative almost 2 years in now into college, getting the same or even better than those students they paid attention too! Family circumstances can be hard, but they can be learning experiences and make you strong, stronger than you ever thought you could be! The process can be difficult: SATs, college applications, class choices, scholarship applications, even if you don’t do well in this or miss it completely, don’t take it to heart, I scored mediocre on the PSATs cried and gave up entirely on the SATs, but I went to college and got a 4.0, almost two years in, and a person going to the same college just got into Yale!</p>
<p>Take heart, don’t give up, and keep on plugging away!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!</p>
<p>Merry Christmas and God Bless!</p>