Suggestions

<p>Hi there,
I'm a sophmore in high school and am a bit overwhelmed with the breadth of college choices. I'm definitely not an overachiever, but I do want an intellectually challenging school. Liberal, small or medium size..itwould be a huge help if I you had a few suggestions.
I was thinking Bard but it seems to be super selective.
stats:
3.5 unweighted GPA
haven't took the SAT or ACT yet.
Currently in Honors English and Honors History.
-DECA
-Random Acts Of Kindness president
-Suicide Prevention officer
-varsity football
-varsity soccer</p>

<p>Thanks a lot for your help.
-Lukas</p>

<p>Hi Lukas,
First, as a sophomore, it might be too early to start putting together a list that is set in concrete. Your grades might go up (or down), you don't yet know where your test scores might fall, and most people change alot between sophomore year and senior year. </p>

<p>You've mentioned three things - intellectually challenging, liberal, small/medium - but those three things can be found at literally hundreds of colleges and universities. So, you need to dig down a little deeper over the next two years as you sort things out.</p>

<p>First, begin with YOU. What have you liked and disliked about high school? How do you want college to be the same, or different? Are you a self-starter, who is independent and self-motivated, or are you someone who does better with some guidance and perhaps a bit of pushing? Who are your closest friends? Do you want to be around similar people in college, or are you looking forward to branching out and meeting very different sorts of people? How much have you traveled, been away from home, etc. Are you comfortable far from home? Are there types of people you would rather not be around? How do you learn best - are you a lover of class discussions, or someone who'd rather blend in and listen to a teacher lecture? What are your academic strengths, what are your weaknesses? Do you think they'll be the same or can you change in the next two years? How much "intellectual challenge" do you really want/need (MOST colleges have some degree of challenge!). What type of person are you socially --- what social environment would be a good fit for you? Do you enjoy a more structured environment or a looser more free academic environment? Do you want a school with a lot of school rah-rah school spirit</p>

<p>And, here's probably the most important question of all: How much can your family realistically afford for college (don't guess - now is a good time to actually sit down with parents and talk this through). Also, talk to your parents now about what their vision of your college experience should be -- do they want you close to home, to major in something particular, etc. Doesn't mean you will end up attending their vision, but in order to get them to come round to your vision, you need to start the conversation, and keep it open. Also, ask them how much time and money they can spend doing college visits over the next two years. </p>

<p>Once you have thought about who you are, the person you are becomming, and what you want/need to succeed and thrive, and your family's unique situation, sit down with the Fiske Guide and read through the profiles of various colleges. Which sound intriguing to you? Which are turn-offs? Look at some college websites - not just the "brand name" schools that everyone knows, but some you may not have heard of. Pay attention to the differences between them. </p>

<p>Now, here is the MOST important thing to keep in mind, however. You have over two years to go before you will be actually choosing your college. Don't get so focused on the "college hunt" that you ignore your life NOW. Work hard, earn good grades, join activities that interest you. But, don't forget to have some fun in high school, too. College isn't going any place. There is no rush to get started figuring out your college list down to the last detail at this point. </p>

<p>Don't let your high school years become more about "college" than about high school. I would also recommend not spending too much time reading boards like this -- it will only add to your stress, not relieve it. And, it's important NOT to get stressed out: there are 2,600+ 4-year colleges and universities in the U.S. - there are likely MANY where you can be happy and successful. So, while it is fine to start thinking about where you're headed, and plan for the future, don't forget that today is a day that you'll never experience again. Live it to the fullest extent possible.</p>

<p>A Random Acts of Kindness Football Player!! Cool.</p>

<p>It's early and you'll have much more information in a year but check these out.</p>

<p>Oberlin
Knox
Lawrence
Earlham
Beloit
Kenyon
Macalester
Whitman
Occidental
Pitzer</p>

<p>Also forget about this stuff for a while. It'll be all on you soon enough.</p>