<p>I graduated from college in 1973. The summer after high school, I worked one fulltime job and one part time job for a total of 60 hours a week. The rest of the summers in college, I worked fulltime. I worked 10-20 hours a week soph-senior year in college, and I graduated with loans that I paid off on time 5 years later.</p>
<p>My husband worked construction (helping construct a high rise despite having a fear of heights) and in a steel mill to help pay for his college education. </p>
<p>I am surprised that my S seems satisfied with having only a 20-hour a week job the summer after freshman year. Most of his friends have at best a 20-hour a week job. They also seem to feel that they can pick and choose their jobs so that the work is interesting and teaches them something.</p>
<p>I was happy to get whatever I could. It wasn't fun, for instance, being a clerk typist in a loud, dirty factor filled with rough guys, but I did it because I could earn money.</p>
<p>As for the pressure about applying to college, I went to one of the best public schools in Upstate NY, and top students wanted to go to Ivies. Most students applied to 5 colleges -- which may seem like a small number, but back then was a lot. Top students also did plenty of ECs so as to look good to colleges (This was back in the day when colleges loved students who appeared to be well rounded. Things have changed.)</p>
<p>I took the SAT twice in an attempt to raise my score. I also studied for the SAT. </p>
<p>While the Kaplan and similar services didn't exist back then, the more competitive students bought review books to try to raise their scores.</p>
<p>Close to 90% of my h.s class went to college, so my school was unusual for those days. Lots of kids of engineers, college professors and people in similar careers attended my school.</p>
<p>When I applied to college also was the most competitive time in U.S. history due to the baby boom. While hearing that back then, Harvard accepted 25% of applicants sounds like heaven compared to now, but those were stressful times just like times are now for today's h.s. students who aspire to name brand colleges.</p>
<p>Add to that, the cost of places like Ivies still was very high particularly compared to in state publics. Seemed my dad (a dentist who was really bad about making money) made about $15 k a year. I think the cost of Harvard was around $6,000 a year.</p>