<p>It's hard to answer your daughter's questions with black and white answers. Colleges are collections of 1200 to 2700 individual students and it's not really accurate to to generalize:</p>
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My D is a terrific student, works very hard, will graduate first in her class at a quite competitive HS - but does not want to stress out over the academics. She works hard but likes to have a nice balance of acedemics and fun (sports, cooking, "playing").
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<p>She would do fine academically at any of these schools. My daughter approached Swarthmore as a diligent, organized student. She went to her classes. She and friends made it a habit of going to the library every night after dinner. She did the assigned reading that had to be done. She took advantage of the study groups when appropriate and generally got drafts of papers finished early enough to do a cycle of revisions at the Writing Center. She did not spend four years "stressing out about academics", except of course during final exam week when papers are due and stuff. I don't know a college student who isn't "stressing out" one week per semester. I believe the first all-nighter she pulled was working on her senior thesis. </p>
<p>Are there students at Swarthmore who "stress out" over academics? Sure. My daughter used to tell prospective students on overnight visits that there are two kinds of people who shouldn't go to Swarthmore: students who have no intention of doing the work and students who are going to impose on themselves an arbitrary GPA that they must achieve "or else". Conversely, it's a wonderful place fo a student who intends to pick courses they enjoy and do the work because they are enjoying learning. It's not like high school.</p>
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She leaves the "brainy" stuff in the classroom, and is not real interested in political engagement and debates over the dinner table.
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<p>Some do, some don't. My daughter said that generally avoided debaters as dinner companions. She and her friends were hardly political zealots, but some are, of course. Having said that, she and her friends took courses together, some of which were so fascinating on issues that they couldn't avoid talking about them outside of class from time to time. I know they shared their adventures traveling around the world with each other.</p>
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She likes to go in to the city now and then, if available, but it is more important to be in a quiet and peaceful environment most of the time, and if there are hiking trails out the back door then that is a big bonus.</p>
<p>Swarthmore has an environmentally protected nature area on campus called the Crum Woods. I believe it's the largest natural habitat in the Philadelphia metro area. Students routinely walk in the woods, along the Crum Creek. </p>
<p>Crum</a> Woods - Garden Tour - Scott Arboretum</p>
<p>Swarthmore</a> College :: Crum Woods Stewardship Committee :: Crum Woods Stewardship Committee</p>
<p>Just walking around Swarthmore's campus is a pleasant hike. It is an arboretum with a $22 million endowment and the essentially the entire campus is maintained as a landscaped garden. It is stunning. </p>
<p>Here are a few of my favorite spots on campus:</p>
<p>Theresa</a> Lang Fragrance Garden - Garden Tour - Scott Arboretum</p>
<p>Scott</a> Outdoor Amphitheater - Garden Tour - Scott Arboretum</p>
<p>John</a> W. Nason Garden - Garden Tour - Scott Arboretum</p>
<p>Terry</a> Shane Teaching Garden - Garden Tour - Scott Arboretum</p>
<p>Dean</a> Bond Rose Garden - Garden Tour - Scott Arboretum</p>
<p>The aboretum gives every Swarthmore student a plant during freshman orientation and another during graduation. One of the coolest traditions is that every graduating senior goes to the Rose Garden the morning of graduation and cuts a rose to pin to the gown.</p>
<p>But, obviously, if you daughter wants to routinely hike, climb mountains, and cross country ski, or snowboard then the mountains of New England will be a better choice.</p>
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She wants to be part of a student body that enjoys the outdoors, enjoy participating in sports but are not "jocky",
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<p>Jocks that aren't jocky is kind of a narrow niche! I'm not sure how to answer that one. In general, Swarthmore's recruited varsity athletes are Swarthmore students first. They don't exist in a separate universe. In general, they don't wear their baseball caps backwards. But, are some of the jocks jockey? Some are, some aren't.</p>
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are environmentally aware and concerned (w/o being hard core activists),
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<p>That's also a narrow, if not mythical niche. Anytime you have an issue-oriented student group, such as an environmental organization, you are going to have some students are hard core activists and some who aren't. Swarthmore has a very active environmental group that has been very effective in pusing the college forward with green initiatives. They also have a significant environmental studies program with particular emphasis from the Engineering Department.</p>
<p>Swarthmore</a> College :: The Greening of Swarthmore :: The Greening of Swarthmore</p>
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and includes plenty of vegetarians/vegans who all have some good options on and off campus.
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<p>I think all of these colleges have very sizeable veggie/vegan populations now. I know that Swarthmore does and that there is a whole section of the dining hall with veggie/vegan options at every meal. As far as dining options off campus, it's Philadelphia -- a metro area of 5 million people. I just had the best meal of my life at graduation when we went to Iron Chef Morimoto's restaurant downtown. Swarthmore kids tend to do more affordable dining: anything from the Iron Horse Brew Pub nearby to chinatown to Indian.</p>
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You will never find a place where all the stars line up, so it is a matter of finding a place where most of the more important ones do, and that then has that right comfortable "feel" that just can't be well described with words
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<p>Yep. That and the little matter of getting in. My gut says that, if your daughter is verbalizing that she doesn't want a demanding or intense academic college experience, then Swarthmore is not the right school for her. As I say, it's a championship course played from the back tees. On the other hand, I would probably be trying to tease out a bit more discussion on that topic. I think most high school students have no clue what college academics are like and are surprised to find out they are "really into it". I would strongy recommend that your daughter do an overnight visit somewhere soon and sit in on a couple of good college classes.</p>