<p>how do you get a teacher to like you...
because last year, my english teacher fueled his dislike towards me in grading my essays..</p>
<p>Ask questions, be an active participant and a team player. </p>
<p>LOL, in high school, I’ve mostly gone under the radar. My teachers have appreciated my attentiveness and dedication to succeeding in their class but have developed no strong connection. This might be due to my quiet, introverted nature, but I think some teachers are willing to like you more than others.</p>
<p>However, in 8th grade…
I was the teacher’s pet. My language arts teacher adored me. He would tell the whole class that I was the only one who could ever possibly come close to achieving the same level of intelligence as him and he lectured that everyone should be more like me. He gave me tons of his own personal books to read, and we would regularly spend time after class talking about books, traveling or our personal lives. At the end of the year, I dedicated a project to him and read a speech in front of the entire grade. He was probably the best teacher I ever had, though I’m biased as I was one of his favorites (and he didn’t mind saying this to myself and other people).</p>
<p>Bear in mind, being the teacher’s pet is a gift and a curse. Students will mock you with envy glaring in their eyes. Some will even go as far to say (as in my case) that your teacher is acting inappropriately towards you. However, the benefits are better than the cons. I loved 8th grade and I always knew I had someone to turn to. I will say that since I developed this ginormous crush on that teacher, going to language arts class was fun and I cherished each day with him.</p>
<p>Even now, we email often and I regularly go to visit him and help him out with his classes. I’m planning on being his TA in junior and senior year.</p>
<p>And, as for your real question, how do you get into the good graces of your teachers?</p>
<p>I’m not sure I can provide an answer. I’ve certainly had many teachers favor me, though it isn’t a regular occurrence.</p>
<p>These are the things I did in 8th grade LA class (I wouldn’t really recommend them though because most teachers favor the good students who actively participate; it was just coincidence that my teacher enjoyed unraveling my quiet exterior and becoming an amazing mentor to me)</p>
<p>-Listen. Always. Everything the teacher says to do, you do it, no questions. Basically, be a good student: always hand in your homework, try your best on every single assignment, show that you actually care about what the teacher is teaching. </p>
<p>For example, if you despise English, it is usually more difficult to become a teacher’s pet because you don’t have that connection of love for literature and writing… That isn’t to say you can’t become their pet, but it would be easier to do so (typically) with a teacher whose subject you have passion for.</p>
<p>-Say good morning and goodbye. Manners go a long way. Treating a teacher like an actual person WORKS!</p>
<p>-(I didn’t do this, but it’s probably recommended): Don’t be afraid to ask for help. It can show the teacher that you care about the class and your grade in it.</p>
<p>-Sometimes, ask your teacher about their life. Take an avid interest in their opinions. Talk about books, tv shows, traveling, anything that can further a connection.</p>
<p>I probably have more but my mind is going blank. Saying “thank you” is good, too. Teachers like students who care about the subject and understand that teachers are real human beings and aren’t just puppets to give you yet another A+.</p>
<p>But the main thing is, all teachers are different. Some teachers are not going to respond favorably to you treating them like people (it’s strange but I’ve found this is true). All of my HS teachers looked at me strangely when I regularly said “hello/good morning/goodbye.” I’m not sure if this is because I usually didn’t say anything in class or if it’s because no student usually displays this basic manner. Developing bonds with your teachers is the main way, but some teachers are wary of that. They don’t want to be your friend; they don’t understand why you’re reaching for them to become a mentor when their job is solely to help you learn material (when in fact it really shouldn’t be). Analyze all your teachers and strategize how you can effectively make the best of your relationship with them.</p>
<p>I, personally, don’t care to become the teacher’s pet unless I have a hot male teacher, which is terrible but I’ll admit it. However, my general way of behaving usually doesn’t repel any teachers and they usually like me somewhat. It’s all about respect, firstly. Then you have the opportunity to get close and have your peers tell you your teacher wants to sleep with you. It’s pretty fun. xD</p>
<p>(My apologies about my bad sarcasm and this excessive length).</p>
<p>PLEASE don’t be a kiss up. Even just to get the freaking rec letters you need. Just don’t do it. Don’t form some kind of a friendship with a teacher unless it is legit. Just participate in class, do your best, and show a genuine interest for the subject.</p>