Thank you @NYYFanNowMTdad! I have followed your story and I just love the outcome. Congratulations! I hope it’s everything your D wanted in a program–though I know it’s probably hard to gauge in this crazy year of covid. Hoping things get back to normal soon!
Yes I agree a wider net would be ideal. My D just “dug her heels in” with the options. (By the way I really wanted her to apply at your D’s school–it’s likely too late to do so now—but for whatever reason she didn’t.). Honestly I think covid has done a number on her and so many kids. Between virtual school, college applications, and then virtual coaching and virtual auditions, it’s been a bummer and very stressful and way too much screen. My D (and I) are the type that need in-person contact. I think this has played into the decisions (one way or another) that my D is making in the process, and I think if life were normal and we were at unifieds (she actually did Moonifieds) in-person she would have ultimately cast a much wider net, even just with walk-ins or meeting people that she knows she’d like to study under or meeting fellow auditionees and making school connections that way. It really sucks actually.
D has decent grades and has been accepted academically at some good schools, so I keep telling her she has good choices regardless…even if not in MT. Trying to stay positive.
By the way I LOVE that you are a MT dad! My husband is supportive but completely clueless with all of this. Your posts have been fun to read and very informative. Thank you for staying involved for those of us going through this a year later. Very generous of you to help us all.