The Friend Zone.

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>You know, it’s definitely easier for girls to get out of the friend zone. All they have to do is show some interest and the guy becomes interested. My girlfriend was totally off my radar just last spring, so much so that I said to one of my friends that I would NEVER date her. Obviously, that didn’t hold true. </p>

<p>That said, I don’t think it would be that tough to get out of the friend zone. Just hang out a couple times, just the two of you, and after a couple good “dates” ask her out.</p>

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<p>Alright… I’ll try it. If it succeeds, I’ll give you an honorary degree…</p>

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<p>That’s not how the friend zone works</p>

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<p>I always thought the friend zone was okay at this point…don’t girls want their life to be like high school musical where their boyfriend is basically their best friend? lol.</p>

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<p>^^How does it work then? I obviously have been misinformed.</p>

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<p>If you really want her, start distancing yourself from her, while maintaining “acquaintance” status with her. </p>

<p>Then, work your charm with other girls.</p>

<p>then, go back to her…</p>

<p>Yes, freindzone sucks.</p>

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<p>^That seriously does not work:/ (at least not for me)</p>

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<p>just get buff</p>

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<p>tikiman is right… Being buff gives you not only confidence, but good looks.</p>

<p>Try putting yourself in her shoes. She sacrifices things to make herself look good. She expects the guy to do something in his part, too.</p>

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<p>yup, either that or become a vampire. If you become a vampire, it doesn’t matter how weird you are. You can get any girl you want</p>

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<p>^LOL at becoming a vampire.</p>

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<p>Im a vampire. RRRRRRRR! Im coming to get you. MUHUHAAA!!</p>

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<p>^^^Not necessarily. You also have to sparkle and be completely gorgeous. It helps if you treat us like crap and tell us what to do. Only THEN is it acceptable to be creepy and/or watch us sleep at night.</p>

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<p>Ok… i heres my opinion as a girl and i know what you are thinking about being in the ‘friendzone’ my ex bf is and was before we started dating best friends… we lost touch right after the break up for a few days and then it was pointless for us to just stop talking to each other even tho i knew he still liked me…
the point is if she is a good friend as you have said then she might actually be open to the idea of dating you… just let her know that if things don’t work out you would still like to be friends…do this BEFORE you break up… talk about it before during and after your relationship ends if it does… it may not
well good luck</p>

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<p>be buff too.</p>

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<p>really? it worked for me once…but i blew that chance eventually to get together with the girl in question. :(</p>

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<p>it sucks to be a girl in the friend zone. We’re too good of friends to do anything, it’ll just make things awkward. Plus he likes one of my best friends but is stuck in the “friends zone” with her because she will never date him. I’ve kind of gotten over it, seeing as when I think of kissing him, it just looks weird.</p>

<p>But the other boy that I was stuck in the friends zone with is now dating a dumb cheerleader. ■■■.</p>

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<p>he’s playing the jealousy card? o__O</p>

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<p>ugh, </p>

<p>the friend zone is worse than hell, seriously.</p>

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<p>Yeah, I wish I could distance myself emotionally. But I can’t.</p>

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<p>^Aww:/
^^^^^Sorry.
I feel bad for everyone here:(</p>