<p>So after being friend-zoned by the second girl that I really liked I have realized that my approach with girls clearly flawed. </p>
<p>Around girls I really like I become the typical "nice-guy" which I can imagine has something to do with my failures in this area. It is kind of weird because I am normally a major Type A and slightly cocky/confident type of person, but when it comes to someone I like/respect I become an unintimidating nice-guy.</p>
<p>Same here bro, around girls i don’t like i swear i could date them in a second because i am cool, collect and you know attractive. Around the girls i like I’m the “bestfriend” guy, which totallly sucks</p>
<p>I apologize on behalf of my gender.
Our priorities aren’t exactly set straight quite yet.</p>
<p>A lot of guys like this… (I do, at times) Just throw out the occasional risque line every once in a while and see how she reacts… If it’s negatively, you’re doomed, if not, figure out what to do next, you know her better than we do!=P</p>
<p>I went through a very similar situation earlier this year, but I realized that it wasn’t my approach that was flawed, and neither was yours. She probably wasn’t in to dating you in the first place, so it doesn’t really matter how you approached her about it. It’s not like being some “intimidating, mean” guy will land you a date with her. Life isn’t some Hollywood high-school relationship movie. The faster you move on, the better.</p>
<p>Let me give you some advice on girls, from a girl. The faster you move in, the better. I can not tell you how many times ones of guy friends has flirted with me for awhile and then after three months made the move. By those three months, I’ve though about guys, thought about him, got tired of him, and permanent “friend zoned”. Sweep in fast. Girls think. When they think, they change how they feel about you. Don’t give them that time.</p>
<p>To be honest, I would imagine most girls would prefer you to become a ‘nice-guy’ around them than a jerk. Yes, it may lead to becoming friends rather than dating, but then it probably wasn’t meant to be anyway.</p>
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<p>she speaks the truth</p>
<p><em>blushes</em> oh thank you!
Seriously, OP, you can be nice and all but you have to take charge.</p>
<p>lol @Niquii … I’ll keep your advice in mind.</p>
<p>I agree completely with Niquii77, when a guy moves in slowly, then acts friendly, I can’t get a good reading. So over the next few months i think about it a lot but he’s still so friendly (and nothing more) that I decide it’s a waste of my time and friend zone him. No one minds being liked by a nice, friendly guy, but then you have to show that you like her.</p>
<p>Lol at all the gender differences.
Personally, I love a nice guy who gets shy around me. I think it’s adorable, sweet, and really humble of him. I’m not exactly attracted to cocky/confident guys.
I don’t know why some girls love jerks haha. I’m not one of them but a lot of my friends are.
I’m sure you’re a good catch. Just relax, try and make her laugh, be yourself, smile a lot. If you have any nervous ticks, like staring at your shoes or messing with your hair, don’t worry about it, we think it’s cute.
If she’s shy, definitely make the first move. If she’s a decent person, she’ll let you down easy. And if she likes you, then good for you! :)</p>
<p>Haha, this is exactly my problem. Thanks for the tips, guys (girls?).</p>
<p>Also: If you’ve got girl problems, I feel bad for you son… :P</p>
<p>He got 99 problems but being nice 'aint one…(had to join in :P)</p>
<p>seriously, niquii’s advice is SO TRUE bros</p>
<p>so pay attention</p>
<p>Thanks 98 
but guys don’t fool around.</p>
<p>Thanks for the tips guys… Will have to keep them in mind next time.</p>