I think #3 could look nice with a dress short sweater.
I vote for dress #3 although I like all of them. I like the colors in 2 but, somehow, it seems like a lot of fabric (probably just the addition of sleeves where the other two are short/cap). I think #1 is a great dress, very unique but D1 has told me that some people feel strongly one should steer clear of white and ivory as a guest at a wedding. I believe this was discussed on this thread and know of the differing views but Iād rather err on the side of caution as long as one has choices.
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I think I just replied to Colorado mom when I meant to reply to the threadā¦not sure how I correct that so Iām letting it go 
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Just for fun, here are Debās original links to dresses 2 and 3:
I know the cowl neck on the Maya dress would annoy me. Otoh, that sleeker style might help you feel less annoyed around the very chic ex SIL 
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I think Iām going with dress 3. The cowl is not uncomfortable. I think for dress 1 or 2 to work I would have to try on the regular size as Iām convinced @Hoggirl is correct about the waist being in the wrong size. But I like dress 3 and donāt want to mess with any more dresses.
I found a pair of shoes and put on a blazer to see how it looks if itās cooler out that night.
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I love this look! I think itās sleek and very flattering!
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Itās a nice, sophisticated and tailored look (like my preferences).
I cannot find the post where @HImom linked her Life Stride shoes, but I want to say Thank You!
I just got a pair to wear to my cousinās daughterās wedding. They are the perfect height (1.5in heel) for me.
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I like the shoesā¦but I think the blazer might better be replaced with a nice black cashmere wrap @BunsenBurner can tell you where to get one.
The blazer just looks way too casual for me.
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Thanks for everyone for your opinions, feedback and encouragement! Itās been very fun.
Iām not really a wrap person. But I might order one and see.
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Iām just thinking something other than a blazer is a better choice. A swing sweater or something. You donāt want to look like you are wearing your husbandās sports jacketā¦
Dress is far too pretty to cover up that much!
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How about a shrug instead of a blazer? Something like:
Or
If you want to have some fun:
I love #3! Glad you are going with it. I love how it fits you and I love the colors. Very slenderizing! Good job
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I have a shrug and a shorter jacket. Iāll play around with the options.
My niece wore an oversized jacket with a midi dress. She looked fabulous. Maybe that look is best on the young. Sheās very fashionable.
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I think shrugs are a bit matronly looking and wouldnāt go with this youthful trendy dress.
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Lol, I think I own that jacket! Iāll have to look in my closet.
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The zippers make that jacket look a little casual to me but I could be wrong as I am very far from chic or any kind of fashion expert ! The blazer seems too heavy to pair with that dress if you are going for a āchicā look. Glad you found a dress you like!
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I still think a wrap would be bestā¦but I donāt think that shrug looks at all matronly. If you have oneā¦try it on with the dressā¦and send us a picture! And the shorter jacket too. I agree the zippers donāt work.
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Itās from Express