<p>I'm a gal, and I'am very interested to know about what young men look for in a girlfriend and vice versa. Post your thoughts.</p>
<p>I looove nice guys.</p>
<p>In most cases, breasts. Everything else is a matter of taste.</p>
<p>^ That's depressing...</p>
<p>Sort of, but think of it this way: Asking what all guys look for is silly. Tastes vary widely. And ultimately, I'd say about three quarters of my gender are pigs.</p>
<p>Here is what most guys look for: <a href="http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a112/starsilhouettes/wantedad.jpg%5B/url%5D">http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a112/starsilhouettes/wantedad.jpg</a></p>
<p>Be yourself; because if you act any differently, you'd attract guys you didn't want to date anyway.
that's my theory anyway... it's much easier too</p>
<p>I'm looking for someone who I can talk with and everything wont be over her head (you know the type), skinny, preferablly white, with straight hair. Laughs at my jokes and cares about me is a big plus too. Just nothing too unusual, like the abilty to beat me in an arm wrestling match, or midget short, you know.</p>
<p>That's a nice pic arbiter;)</p>
<p>Smart, kind, and decent looking. Everything else is extra.</p>
<p>Alot of guys would settle for just two of the above listed three. (Any combination)</p>
<p>For me, it's eyelash length. Plus intelligence, shared interests (mathhh), and a moral theory based on a small, widely-accepted set of axioms. And he can't like kissing. That's gross. He'd have to restrict himself to other sorts of sexual interaction.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, I've never met a guy quite like this. To my knowledge.</p>
<p>They have to have the right ICQ number, obviously....</p>
<p>Well to me average is decent looking.</p>
<p>I dont know how you could settle for someone. They need to be at least somewhat smart. Kind is a must.</p>
<p>craze200: You'll get as many answers as there are boys. There is no "one thing" that everyone wants. Keep your mind and heart open, but don't settle for something unsatisfactory.</p>
<p>Mustaches are a total turnoff in women.</p>
<p>He has to be very intelligent, not a genius, but very bright. I have to find him attractive, and very well toned or built but toned is good. I love a man who loves to read all kinds of books. I would love to meet a poet kind of guy who can express his words so beautifully in such a language that can melt me away into another kind of place. He has to be respectful, driven, determined, and hard working. He should have a sense of humour and a nice smile =). And since I am tall I would love a tall guy. For some reason I love a guy's hands so his hands would have to be a nice bonus. But other than those, he has to be a nice guy who treats others well, family oriented, goal oriented, and is well educated.</p>
<p>In a girl...</p>
<ol>
<li>Confidence</li>
<li>Sense of humor</li>
<li>Intelligence</li>
<li>Optimism</li>
<li>Passion</li>
</ol>
<p>Physical attractiveness kinda falls into place with confidence and demeanor. It's not so much how you look as what you do with it.</p>
<p>I like flannel shirts.</p>
<p>is it just me are we trying to use CC as an online dating service again?</p>
<p>ewww, grody</p>