My daughter is expressing interest in attending boarding school on the east coast, and we live on the west coast. It is tempting for me to start looking down this path, but I think I should figure out how feasible it is before I start raising hopes and expectations. She’s a rising 7th grader, so we have time to figure it out.
How common is it for kids to go to school a plane ride (or two) away? Does it have an effect on admissions- geographic diversity? Will my kid feel out of place if most of the kids are from the east coast? Would it make sense to wait until 10th or 11th grade- is that even possible? We would need FA- I know this will be a limiting factor in admissions, does being far away complicate FA in any way?
In addition to all those questions, I think I would really miss my kid, so I am not sure if I would really pursue it. But there are some reasons why I am thinking about it.
I am from NY, and my parents and sister live in upstate NY where there are many boarding schools. Plus cousins and other people I know well.
My daughter is really very interested in Millbrook because of the zoo, and it happens to be within an easy drive of my family - my mother is thrilled that we are even considering it. Then she started talking about Hotchkiss, where she occasionally plays golf with a friend who retired from teaching there, and my daughter’s ears really perked up.
My daughter currently attends a local private school where we live. She is super smart and an especially gifted writer, artist, a lover of animals, but basically good at everything. She is social and outgoing, energetic, athletic, musical, mature for her age, insightful, etc. I think she would thrive, and I guess I would enjoy visiting her whenever I get to the east coast - it happens a few times per year to visit family, but also sometimes for work.
Anyway next time we visit my parents, we may try to visit a couple of schools, but I guess I am wondering if this is common and if it works well for some families.