<p>I'm getting really stressed out about applying to college in the fall. I have 3 subject tests, an AP exam, and the SAT to take by summer. I have so many outside school activities I'm anxious to get involved in, but I have to wait until I get a car. The wait is killing me. I've been visiting colleges and even though I've learned a lot about the colleges from visiting, visiting has made me even more worried. I keep worrying that I'm not good enough to get in to the schools I want to. I'm trying to forget about college for now and just relax, but it keeps creeping back into my mind.</p>
<p>I guarantee you a million times over that you are certainly not alone.</p>
<p>Try thinking about one thing at a time- don't plan too far ahead, that can be daunting. Create a study regime and stick to it, and it'll all be over before you know it.</p>
<p>Try finding a few safety schools you really like, and then "fall in love" with them. Scour their brochures, websites, course listings and create a happy image of yourself there. (And visit!)</p>
<p>File the reach schools in your mind like you would a lottery ticket--chances are mathematically slim, but would be a nice bonus. </p>
<p>Work day-to-day for good grades but focus on the new knowledge you are absorbing. This way you can begin to determine a possible college major and life pursuit/profession. Once you have a passion, success will come from your enthusiasm and participation. And many colleges can provide you with the necessary training. </p>
<p>A top-rung school will offer certain opportunities, but be very competitive and demanding once you are in. A lower level college could allow you to shine at the top, also providing great opps. Keep looking at both sides of the coin. It will all work out!</p>
<p>Stay off of CC for now--this place will just get you more stressed. Realize there is not one best option, but many paths. Trust God and/or yourself that you will find your way. In other words--keep this in perspective!!</p>