<p>ok, so i have two really good friends who happen to be dating each other. i recently found out (through walking in on it) that my guy friend is cheating. i've been stressing about whether or not to tell her about it. i am really good friends with both of them and don't know what to do. HELP?</p>
<p>I have two good friends who are dating as well. She would definately want to know if he was cheating, given the other friends history. So yes I would. Your friend has a right to know so that she can either break up with him or have a serious conversation about the boundaries of their relationship. “man code” or whatever you want to call it aside, cheating is cheating. </p>
<p>Is there any way you can tell her without him finding out that it was you?</p>
<p>you should definitely tell her before she finds out from somebody else because then she’ll be mad at you for knowing and not telling her and end up losing both friends in the case that the guy won’t talk to you after that.</p>
<p>either way it’s not a good situation and it not going to end very well so you might as well put yourself in the situation where you can come out of it with your head still intact </p>
<p>good luck</p>
<p>You owe it to your friend to tell her when she’s being cheated on. You do NOT owe it to your other friend to cover up his cheating. Since both are your friends, ask him to come clean about it. If he won’t, you’ll have to come clean for him.</p>
<p>Talk to male friend. Say “Look, you have to man up and tell (girl) that you’re cheating on her. I don’t want to cause ****, so I’m not going to tell her before you do, but if you don’t tell her tonight/tomorrow/whatever I’ll have to.”</p>
<p>I like ike.</p>
<p>sorry, couldn’t resist. but he/she has the right idea.</p>
<p>Okay so I was in this exact same position about a month or so ago, and if the you and the guy are good friends, give him an ultimatum, like “You better tell her by tomorrow or I will”, like dwight said. that’s what my friends and I unfortunately had to do. He ended up telling her about a day after because neither my friends nor I could deal with keeping it from her. But make sure to do it SOON, or your friend will be even more devastated and upset.</p>
<p>And of course be ready for the heartbreak…after the break-up we immediately went to the grocery store and bought ice-cream, chocolate, etc. for her.</p>
<p>All in all, it’s a sucky situation to be in and I wish you luck!</p>
<p>Guy code. Don’t snitch.</p>
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<p>Fix’d. You’re welcome.</p>
<p>I agree with the ultimatum to the guy.</p>
<p>He’s not really your friend if he’s willing to put you in a situation like this (if he refuses to tell her).</p>