<p>How early? It sort of depends on what you consider decent seats. None of them are actually decent, though. By the time all the grads are packed in, visitors are a long way from any action. “Decent” really means close enough to see the stage, and maybe near the aisle your child is going to walk down so you can take a picture. Note, also, that if your child is in the Social Science Division (which goes last), and has a name in the second half of the alphabet, you will be able to “trade up” your seating from wherever you were for the past five hours before your child actually crosses the stage.</p>
<p>Anyway, if you show up half an hour before the kids are supposed to show up, you will probably be fine/close enough to the front to have a decent choice of where to sit. No one camps out overnight, and there isn’t much of a line. By the time all the kids show up, however, things are pretty full.</p>
<p>What do people wear? The whole gamut, depending on what they plan to do after. The ones I went to, it rained both times. One was freezing when it wasn’t raining, the other was steaming. Both times, the people in nice clothes were even more uncomfortable than everyone else.</p>
<p>Additional events on Friday? Ehhhh . . . . It kind of depends on your kid. If his or her friends will be there and were involved in planning the event, yes. If not, not. My older child walked out on the Class Day thing, but I stayed and kind of enjoyed it. My younger child was far more enthusiastic about it.</p>
<p>Sunday move-out is perfectly do-able. Most move-outs will have occurred by then, and many don’t happen until the end of the month/lease term.</p>
<p>Rental vans: Vandalism, no. Burglary, maybe. I don’t think I would leave a van on the street loaded with stuff I wouldn’t mind losing, unless it was really big and hard to carry, and not worth bringing a truck back to take.</p>
<p>Know in advance: How really long the whole ceremony is. Nice to make some plans with kids and their friends in advance.</p>