To STEM or Not To STEM (College Major Troubles!!)

<p>I'm a high school senior this year and, contrary to all my sophomore year hopes, I have yet to figure out what I want to major in.</p>

<p>On the one hand, I'm very, very bright. I have excellent test scores, varied interests, and 'A' grades in subjects across the board. Whatever colleges I end up getting into, they're sure to be good. As a result of this, along with my femaleness, I have for a long time felt pressure to go into a STEM field. After years of insisting it wasn't for me, I finally conceded, and decided I would go for astrophysics. I like math, I like having the right answer, and I have a philosophical interest in the subject (after all, "there's a big, big universe out there, and we are but ants"). Unfortunately, I have recently realized that might be about as far as it goes. Labs are a bore, I hate the laboratory environment, and, when it comes down to doing actual physics, I can think of a great many things I would rather be doing.</p>

<p>On the other hand, we have... those things I'd rather be doing. I love literature, and history, and philosophy, and all those things that are generally considered by society to be "useless." If I could have my way, I would be an academic, or a writer, or an editor (but, yes, mostly an academic), and would (in my estimation) be perfectly happy, despite the small salary. If I do this, though, it would be seen as "wasting my potential." The way those around me see it (HS counselors and the like), I have a duty to society to do what is in the interest of that society, and being a philosophy major just isn't going to cut it.</p>

<p>On yet another hand (which we will assume I have three of, since that would be sort of cool), I have a sort of a middle ground. Whenever I take tests on this sort of thing ("what's your major," etc.), I always end up with political science-type majors, and especially things like international relations and foreign languages. I do love languages (I've worked hard to keep French on my schedule every term, at the expense of other opportunities at the university where I have attended class for the past two years), and I do have sort of a vague notion that I might like to work with an NGO or even (<em>legasp</em>) the United Nations, but I'm not sure if I'd actually enjoy the coursework for such a thing. While I love travel and would like the chance to bang some politicians' heads together at the international level, I'm not sure if I even /like/ polisci. I hated economics, and, while I enjoy debating my own, highly idealistic brand of politics, I'm not sure I'd enjoy dealing with politics as it applies to the real world. (Aside from which, I have difficulty imagining myself fulfilled with a real /job/ like my parents and the rest of boring old America, as ridiculous as that sounds.)</p>

<p>The majority of the colleges I'm applying to are actually in the UK (I wasn't motivated about college until I decided I wanted to study abroad, so it's sort of non-negotiable), and require me to choose a course of study when I apply, so I have to figure this out within the next few months. So what should I go for? The STEM field that would always offer a challenge, but which I have no real passion for? The liberal arts degree I have all the passion in the world for, but would be seen as wasting my talents? Or the IR path that could be a potential source of either unparalleled excitement, or absolute misery?</p>

<p>Any and all opinions are appreciated.</p>

<p>Hi, I really enjoyed reading your message. As for what you should do, it is kinda hard to say at this point, you want to have a job, but what you want to do may not be what you love so what do you do? </p>

<p>I will say this, do NOT go into STEM unless you absolutely love it. There are many people that do it because they like it and the courses are very challenging and if you are not 100% in, then you won’t make it. I am also interested in the “useless” things like you are and while you can get a job with some degrees, just be prepared that you may have to do internships or have other jobs to separate you from everyone else. When it comes to foreign languages, I wanted to do languages too and just know this, that the best you can do with that is teach and that’s it. If you are not sure if you like poli sci then take a class, the core in my state makes us take two beginning goverment classes and if you know you want to work in goverment, then I would think a degree in history/polisci/economics would do nicely.</p>