<p>Thanks guys for all your input, I really appreciate it.</p>
<p>So I did some recalculating, with an 8% interest rate, taking out 17k each year, for four years, the first one would compound interest for four years, the second for three, the third for two, and the fourth for one. It actually is closer to around $83,000, which is still a lot.
My mom says she’s willing to cosign me at union bank for a loan, and since she has a good track record, can probably get me a loan with a 5.25% interest rate. That would come closer to around $77,000.</p>
<p>The weirdest thing happened. I told my mom that I had thought this through, and although I want to go to Harvey Mudd, $83,000 of debt is ridiculous. Now my mom, who has been wanting me to go to UC, when I told her I decided it would probably be better to go to UCI for two years and then transfer, she was against it! She told me since I really want to go to Harvey Mudd, I should go there. I was so surprised! Then I mentioned again that $83k was too much, and she said it was a good investment for my future. She then said if her business goes well, she might help me out more. I was so shocked. Regardless, I don’t want to end up more than say 50k in debt by the end of college. So unless I can figure out a way to do that… it looks like I’ll be going to UCI for at least my first two years. I’ll talk it over more with my parents, and see if we can work anything out. </p>
<p>I’m feeling less stressed about this, especially after talking to my friend who graduated from Pomona today. I got to sit down with him, and he shared some interesting perspectives. I know it’s a big and tough decision, but I know I can handle it and make a decision that will end up leaving me at peace with myself, even if it’s not what I want at the moment. Thanks again for all the help.</p>
<p>Oh, and mom2collegekids, I’m a girl. : )</p>
<p>@ ca_mom2000: Sorry my bad, I meant I qualified for unsubsidized loans, sorry. Got them mixed up for a second.</p>
<p>Also, I have talked to FinAid a few months ago, they told me my best best was private scholarships. I’ve rounded up $1k. I was thinking of sending them an e-mail about my concern and asking them for advice, but I really don’t think they’ll tell me anything except my loan options. I sent an email a week ago, and they said they couldn’t really give me any loan advice until after my mom’s IDOC is in.</p>