<p>there is a difference between individuals and institutions/legal policy.
An individual student having friends of a certain color is not the same as Brown University making policy</p>
<p>Those two things are just not the same</p>
<p>Racism = prejudice + POWER</p>
<p>how does someone else chosing their friends have power over you? that doesn't oppress you, that has nothing to do with you. how would a group of students of color coming early to discuss being a person of color, finding identity, and promoting self-empowerment-- i.e. a group of people coming together to have a private conversation about themselves, have power over others when it haw nothing to do with them?</p>
<p>And, having a space like TWTP for incoming students of color to be empowered by their identities as people of color is not the same as sanctioning KKK or allowing for a white only school that has far greater funding and resources then other schools.</p>
<p>These two things are not the same. This is what I mean when I say that the law promotes colorblindness/race-less-ness and that in trying to run from segregation we as a society have jumped to the other extreme which is equally racist of not seeing race, of not wanting to acknowledge its there and of not allowing people to have private conversations/spaces/programs to explore their racial (or for that matter gender, sexuality, class) backgrounds. People should be allowed to have private spaces to explore their identity which may differ from the mainstream. It should NOT be considered illegal or "racist" to have a twtp that is only for students of color given that twtp is created by people of color and funded by alumni of color. Fraternities privately run/funded are associated/present on college campuses all the time and allowed to create their own rules for initiation, as should be the case with twtp.</p>
<p>Lastly my point about friends was this: considering someone racist simply because their group of friends happens to be of a certain racial mix or not of a certain racial mix is to force assimilation. Its basically saying everyone MUST have inter-racial friends in order to not be racist which is tokenizing and simplistic.</p>
<p>Just because someone chooses to be friends with people who happen to share their racial background, does not make them racist. It doesnt mean they hate the other race(s). It just means that people of those backgrounds happen to not be among their group of friends, that those people choose not to actively seek out an inter-racial group of friends. Are we honestly saying that someone MUST have friends of every race to not be racist? By that logic someone must have female friends to not be sexist, maybe someone must have gay friends to not be homophobic? Im not saying people shouldnt have friends from different backgrounds Im just saying that NOT having friends of certain backgrounds does not, automatically make someone racist. As in, if there are people of color who happen to be friends with other people of color, then that is their choice. They chose a group of friends based on what was important to them on a personal level, this does not mean they are racistit does not mean they picked their group of friends only because of race, it does not mean that on a larger institutional, social, and/or political level they think a certain way. It could be as simple as being Latina and wanting to speak in your native language as much as possible and therefore being attracted to other Latinas who are able to communicate to you in a way that is familiar so all or most of your close friends wind up being Latina. Now, maybe you wouldnt pick friends that way but if others want to, shouldnt they be allowed to? Is allowing for someone to have friendships like that racist? </p>
<p>If you would say yes then you are assimilationist. You believe that people should not have a choice in who their friends are. You believe that everyone no matter what should have friends who are of every single racial background and if they do not have friends like that it is because they are "racist". To think that way is colorblind, it is to not take any racial or cultural factors into account in thinking about the things people relate on and how friendship is formed. To think that way is racist and assimilationist.</p>