Does Uh Manoa offer a lot of financial aid to out of state students at around 43,000 to go there?
NO
http://www.hawaii.edu/fas/basics/calculator.php will tell you that there is no financial aid (other than possibly Pell grants if you qualify) for out-of-state students.
Non-Hawaii-resident students from the Western Undergraduate Exchange region may get 150% of in-state tuition:
http://manoa.hawaii.edu/admissions/financing/wue.html
http://manoa.hawaii.edu/admissions/financing/index.html
Some scholarships are available:
http://www.hawaii.edu/fas/info/scholarships.php
Usually you cannot combine the WUE discount with scholarships.