@goingnutsmom
Hahaha, you are very perceptive. Indeed.
Here is our story. I hope it helps others. Maybe it will, Maybe it wont. At this stage I am past caring. I am an alum. I really loved UChicago, even when it was not popular, even when people barely knew it. My Chicago education gave me the tools and the skills to be quite successful. My son was interested in attending UChicago from the time he was a small kid. He has always been fascinated by the school for its fiercely intellectual culture, and thought it was the best school in the world to attend.
Unfortunately as he was growing up, the school became quite popular. By the time he was ready to apply, it had become insanely competitive with all kinds of students applying that simply were attracted by its prestige. The College also incessantly marketed to everybody and drove up its application numbers.
My son worked really hard to get into this school. He made straight A’s, took a ton of AP classes, scored in the 99% percentile in his standardized test and had a respectable and meaningful set of extra curricular activities that spoke to his intellectual interests
He never wavered in his interest for UChicago.
He poured his heart into his Chicago essays and his teachers have given him good recommendations.
He is what UChicago claims they want as a student. I was also a wee bit nervous because of the sudden rise in the school popularity, but I was cautiously optimistic. He applied EA at UChicago and ED to one other school. Well the other application was a rush job and not very polished. When he got deferred at the other school, my son was actually relieved. He had his heart set for his #1 choice
The Admissions office at my Alma Mater failed my family and my son. He is the quintessential UChicago student. Trust me, having attended the University, I know. The apple did not fall far from the tree. He is a great fit for the school and he showed it in his application. I am convinced something in their process went wrong somewhere. He has fallen through the cracks. Somehow in the flood of applications, he got overlooked and cast aside.
He is totally broken hearted. So yes we are angry and bitter at the school. A school that I love. Yes, he has other admissions to good schools and will go on and be successful, but Chicago denied our family an opportunity to celebrate the school even more and have a multi-generational connection with it. My confidence in Chicago’s unique approach to selecting students has evaporated.
The admissions office at Chicago turned out to be just like any of the other schools
I still believe Chicago is a fantastic school, but if your admission process cannot spot a kid like my son, there is something wrong with your system. Its just that simple. And this is not entitlement speaking. This is just the anguish of a parent who knows that my son would have been a great student at UChicago, had the credentials to go there, showed consistent interest in it, poured his heart into applying and still could not make it past some ridiculous staffer on the Admissions committee who either had it for legacy admits, his ethnicity, his race, his gender or had some other issue with his file. Or maybe he just fell through the cracks. Either way, others with clearly less emotional connection with the school, some with poorer credentials, some who consider Chicago their second, or third choice will be courted and allowed to enter the University. To me that is tragic.
So there you have it
We will get past this. My son is intelligent, smart, hard working and it is Chicago’s loss that he will not be attending Chicago. But right now, yes, we are pi**ed off at the University.