<p>I am a retired physician who also served on the UT Austin faculty for ten years. Your father is correct in saying that you can get a good pre-med education at either UT or UH. However, there is more to education than satisfying pre-med requirements. Your undergraduate years are a time and an opportunity for personal growth, and therefore are not to be wasted on a single-minded dedication to the goal of becoming a doctor. You should try to choose a college or university that will give you the best opportunities for personal growth. You should also avoid burdening yourself with debt, because you will accumulate a large debt for medical school if you ultimately choose that path and your father continues to withhold financial support. </p>
<p>My recommendations:</p>
<p>Look for merit scholarships. If you are a NMF semifinalist you will get offers from Texas A&M, Arizona State University, the University of Nebraska, the University of Alabama, etc.</p>
<p>Even if you are not a NMF semifinalist your SAT scores may qualify you for a full ride at Alabama (For someone of my generation with memories of the civil rights struggles of the 1960s, this is a difficult recommendation to make. However, Alabama is very generous with merit scholarships, no doubt in an effort to overcome its unfortunate history. Moreover, I know of many students who are very happy in the honors program there).</p>
<p>As fond as I am of UT, I would still recommend that you go to a college that will give you merit-based aid.</p>
<p>Do not live at home. If you do, you will miss out on so much of the college experience. It is time to separate from your parents and become your own person. (If you agreed to go to UH would really have to live at home?)</p>
<p>You don’t really know for certain that you want to be a doctor. I thought I did back in 1966, but I ended up earning a BA, two MAs, and a PhD in a different field, and teaching in that field for eleven years before deciding to go to medical school. Be open to other possibilities.</p>
<p>I confess that I don’t understand your father’s attitude. Is he really saying that he will not contribute anything to your college education (given that your tuition is already covered)?
Does he want you to work your way through college because that’s what he did (there is an argument to be made for that point of view)? Or is he a very controlling person who likes to makes people bend to his will?</p>