Unversity of Rochester or Colgate university

I would be concerned that this frame of mind is not conducive to a successful first year at any college.

Take a deep breath. If you can’t adjust to the idea of the excellent school you have the opportunity to attend, you may want to arrange for a gap semester or year until you are in a better frame of mind.

College is all about what YOU bring to the table. The specific institution is important, but wholly secondary.

Think hard about this.