Unversity of Rochester or Colgate university

I feel that the financial is now the biggest problem for my family.

Are you ok, OP? I hope you have been able to come down from the overwhelming feelings of a couple weeks ago. As aparent I was touched by your concern for your family. I hope things have settled down for you by now.

Hey OP, I’m sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. Let me know if you need any advice, I have a couple things in mind that may help your situation. Best of luck.

I have never been so mentally stressed and depressed like this in my life. I am still suffering mentally everyday, I have not have any good sleep, I can’t even sleep tbh. I hope people doesn’t make the stupid mistake like me in future

To be honest op, you haven’t given the other college a chance. Be grateful that you have a college to go to. There’s millions of children that don’t have the opportunity to go and get an education. You stressing and making your life depressed is making you bring the negativity to yourself. I was like you, when I didn’t get into my dream transfer school Penn State University. I was about to cry but then I realized that it was for something and that something may come up later in my life. Just take it easy and see if you like it. If not transfer

I would be concerned that this frame of mind is not conducive to a successful first year at any college.

Take a deep breath. If you can’t adjust to the idea of the excellent school you have the opportunity to attend, you may want to arrange for a gap semester or year until you are in a better frame of mind.

College is all about what YOU bring to the table. The specific institution is important, but wholly secondary.

Think hard about this.