<p>FSU is a large state flagship school with a long history of premier academic work wherein most freshmen are former 'large fish' from small ponds. From my own view and experience this means that suddenly kids who were among the talented academic stars at high school are now average, meaning all their new FSU peers are smart, motivated and competing for grades, dorms and everything else. This is not easy for them to accept sometimes.</p>
<p>Just like every other freshman, your kid and my kids (I have one junior at FSU and another freshman on the way in August) have to adjust to this reality and learn to work harder and more efficiently. It is a leveling process that our kids have to adjust to, with the help of the FSU staff and more senior students. I think that while this process causes stress on the kids and angst in us parents, it is perfectly normal and essential and frankly, I would not want it any other way, as I want my kids to able to survive on their own in the real world. </p>
<p>Having said that, I have found the FSU staff to be very aware of this process and sympathetic to the worries and concerns of new students, which I found found remarkable for such a big school. This does not mean they will hesitate an instant to flunk our kids out if they don't do the work, make no mistake. They will not long tolerate sloth, as there are many kids who were turned away from FSU to give the kids with the best grades and other indicators admission to the university. </p>
<p>The Honors program is great, but with the close access these kids get with senior professors, the course work is also substantially more demanding, requiring the same process of adjustment, maybe even in a shorter time period. I remember when my older kid qualified for Calc II Honors as an incoming freshman, with a full professsor and was ready to jump into the work. I think I was more worried than she, remembering how tough university work could be, but she adjusted quickly and got an 'A'. (I'm not sure if I adjusted or not though ; ^ ) </p>
<p>Since adaptability is supposedly the hallmark of intelligence, I suggest that if your child was admitted to FSU they have what it takes to survive and will thrive if given the chance.</p>
<p>I cannot see for an instant what is worth $80,000 at UM or any other similar school, that cannot be had from FSU for less. There is no way I would saddle my kid or myself with that kind of debt, or even a part thereof, for an undergraduate education when an alternative like Florida State is available.</p>