<p>dad? is that you? haha, oh wait no i dont live in texas (weird though, because i was born there)... but aside from location (i live in suburban boston), your description of your daughter was EXACTLY like me!</p>
<p>i visited all 3 schools, emory, vandy, wake, during feb. break, and
i liked all 3. i go to a top high school, and am very liberal, love my starbucks, only other diff seems to be that i'm more into creative writing than dance. i am v. social but enjoy learning, and got NMSF letter from the PSATS (214). also my mom went to a southern school/grew up in the south (uflorida acutally, which is different but... you get the idea)
i'm struggling between the same choices!! and while ive visted all 3, i have to choose 2 to send my NMSF letter to, and im having a hard time.
here's my take: emory is by far my favorite. originally i was like your daughter in that i considered sports a must, not because i know anything about football but because i liked the whole social aspect of going to football games/tailgaiting/schoool spirit! but because i loved everything else about emory i was able to let go of this... i mean i can always hike over to UGeorgia if i want to go to a game... it does bother me a little that theres supposedly a lack of school spirit there, but considering the awesome combo of a big fraternity/sorority/on-campus social scene with the whole atlanta clubbing/bars/restaurants scene, the social aspects at emory sounded good to me. also i love love love atlanta and the weahter and the south in general, but i also loved the fact that emory was a liberal school with a northern type attitute... combined with sunshine that is pretty much my ideal. also emory has really strong academics, an amzing campus, great teachers, a v. strong study abroad program, VERY diverse, and everyone was superfriendly when i visited.
so emory is my #1 at this point.</p>
<p>vanderbilt, i loved for many of the same reasons (nashvilles pretty awesome as well), except that i've heard a lot about vandy being very snobby, white, highschoolish, shallow, and conservative, which may be a problem for me. i've had enough high school for one lifetime, thank you. so that worries me. i know a girl from my school who is transferring after her freshman year because she didnt want to be in that type of superficial atmosphere (or so she says, but i also heard that she got rejected from the top 4 sororities..which may've been a factor too).
sports are there but arent huge. apparently its not a lie that people DO dress up and get dates for football games...hmm...</p>
<p>wake forest unfortuantely was freezing cold and very dreary when i went there which mayve affected my opinon. it just didnt seem as enthusiastic as the other 2 schools (but then again it was the 3rd one i saw, so maybe it was partly me who was losing enthusiasm).. also i did not like the surrounding area of wake... winston-salem is (i hear, and briefly saw) a sad excuse for a city, and no one really goes there. frats are huge, and its not very diverse. also people dont seem quite as accepting of northerners there. but i have a friend who goes there and loves it (her parents went there too). its very sports-crazy (they TP their own quad after every bball win), and also tons of work.</p>
<p>some other similar schools i'm considering: william&mary, urichmond, duke(major reach), tufts (v. similar to emory except not in the south), james madison, udel, and even utexas at austin (so big though!)!</p>
<p>though i'm really unsure myself, i hope this is helpful, and feel free to ask me anything else!</p>
<p>i'm still at a dilemma for a 2nd choice... and i need to decide by tomorrow so i can fill out my NMSF thing on time... so anymore help would be very appreciated!!</p>
<p>sorry this post is ridiculously long...i'm procrastinating on starting my math homework...</p>