Visited...and am sad. Social life question?

<p>rl41090 – The hottest sororities are naturally the ones you find most attractive.</p>

<p>i’d say 3/4 sorority chicks are not hot…</p>

<p>no different than any other cornell girl…</p>

<p>what it says is sororities DO look at things other than your physical attractiveness when they recruit freshmen.</p>

<p>like whether you are interesting, can hold a conversation, are classy, have good networking skills, are fun to be around, etc.</p>

<p>Cayuga-- I’m a girl, lol. Just asking from a girl’s perspective of how a current student perceives certain sororities.</p>

<p>@ op: please come to cornell. you can be the hot dumb jock who lowers the curve for everyone else…</p>

<p>@polo:</p>

<p>LOL HAHAHAHA. I totally agree.</p>

<p>Silly discussion. If you want attractive intelligent women, go to UVa. By the way, how attractive are you?</p>

<p>Please the OP is completely legit in his concerns of the attractive people on campus. At our age we need not care care about “a nice personality” and all that, most of us are not trying to look for, and will not find, a wifey or hubby at Cornell, but will find countless flings. Coming from high school college holds the potential for sexual freedom away from our parents and it would be nice to explore that with people with a face/body you’d actually enjoy looking at while…yea. Sorry to all the parents in this forum. But that is nature and it is normal.</p>

<p>I agree with oldfort that b/c of Cornell’s academic rigor many do not spend time on their appearance and that may be why the OP did not see a lot of attractive people on campus. Some come out at night, but most of us do not realize how bad we are looking until we get off-campus, out that lil bubble, and compare ourselves to people who actually look good. For example, me going to NYC one break and looking at my brows and screaming…</p>

<p>But also, in all honesty, there aren’t that many attractive people at Cornell…wait, there are attractive people, but not many are really gorgeous, and the ones that are gorgeous know so much that they become unattractive. </p>

<p>And who said they saw attractive Black people(or at least guys)?!! Where? Tell me, 'cause in all my 3 years I have yet to find cute Black guys at Cornell. I think there’s been a dry period for some years…
And don’t be fooled by the “pecs” you saw in MILRSO, vaseline makes a lot of things look good in low light.</p>

<p>No wait…I have seen attractive black guys in some of my daughter’s pictures (she shows me her FB pictures every once in a while when she is home). I actually made her stop to tell me who they were - potential suitors? Nope.</p>

<p>I am sure parents on this forum have never experience sexual freedom. In my case, it only happened twice - once for D1 and another time for D2.:)</p>

<p>I have heard (read some where) most of us marry someone we’ve gone to school with, whether it’s someone we met while in school or later.</p>