<p>^ I can’t think of anything that is worth living an unbalanced life for, not prestige, money or power could replace the human need to have people in your life. Of course she said “no” she is finished with Harvard and has nothing to look forward to in her free time…the world could get lonely when you strive to be better than your natural abilties. There is a fine line that needs to be drawn between what we expect kids to give up in order to be the best. Once this line is crossed it is the children who suffer in seclusion and guilt that they can never be what their parents hoped for.</p>