Wellesley/Middlebury Dilemma

<p>I have narrowed my final choices down to two, but I find it impossible to choose between them! I received almost identical financial aid packages from the schools. The obvious differences are location (suburb vs. small town) and Wellesley is all women. I've been agonizing, but I don't have a clear preference at this point, and I will eventually have to make very difficult decision. I will regret having to turn one down; they are both great schools.</p>

<p>Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!</p>

<p>Did you visit/overnight/attend a class? Look at dorms? Check out the food? Meet you advisor-to-be?</p>

<p>Ironically, I think you will find Wellesley a more diverse (even though it is a women's school) and diversifying experience than Middlebury (I did graduate school there). And there are some strong arguments for women with an interest in science/engineering benefitting from the women's college experience in terms of mentorships in the long run. Just an intuitive offering; good luck with your good choices</p>

<p>Both, of course are wonderful schools. When my son was considering his Middlebury option he spoke with his aunt who had attended. She asked him to think about himself as a Junior or Senior, as well as a freshman...for her, at least- it had been a better match for her first few years of school than as she matured. She was the typical Middie in terms of socio-economic profile- and eventually the homogeneity did it in- in her mind. </p>

<p>That said, it is a breathtaking campus(Wellesley is not too shabby) and the kids we met were down to earth, smart and fun loving! The academics are thoughtfully conceived, the sporting options unsurpassed. </p>

<p>Figure out all the significant variables to you, put them on a spread sheet, add up the numbers, and then...go with your gut. One place will just feel right- they are quite different...</p>