Hello everyone. I’m an upcoming senior and I am really anxious about applying to college. I feel that my stats right now are very low and I would appreciate it so much if you can give me opinions or words of advice.
GPA - Weighted: 3.5, Unweighted: 3.2 ; passed all classes except PreCal 2nd semester (making it up through the summer)
EC - Key Club: Treasurer 2015-2016, President 2016-2017
National Honor Society Member (2 years)
LEO Club: Activities Director
ASB: Student Service Foundation Representative 2017-18 (dealing with grant applications of school district; only one
rep from each school in school district)
AVID (5 years)
Tennis; JV (2014-15), Varsity (2015-2016), maybe joining again senior year
SAT- TBD, est. 1200
Schools of Interest: UCI, UCD, Chapman, La Verne, Pepperdine, UCSD, UCSB, CSULB, UCLA, Cal
Story: My parents have been divorced ever since I was an infant. My father wanted to abort me and said my mom would never be able to raise me on her own and that I would never be successful. My mother has been raising me and my brother on her own with very little in her pocket. Although I see him every two weeks, my father has been absent most of my life as he is taking care of a different child now. I am very distant from him and I can’t hold a conversation without having tears form in my eyes because I feel that I do not know my own biological father at all. My father’s side of the family hates me. I want to prove to them that I am able to succeed and to make my hardworking mom proud. I was a student of promise, straight A’s and good test scores. I’m by far from the smartest kid, but I really had no problems until high school hit. When I was a freshman, I was put into a STEAM program which I never signed up for. I absolutely hated it. I was supposed to take Alg2/Trig, but they put me in Geometry again because all students in the program had to be in the same pace and math class. I hated that they held me back. They also put me in Physics which I totally sucked at. I hung out with the wrong crowd as well and I ended up having a 3.47 GPA first semester of my freshman year. I was so disappointed in myself because I know that I am more capable than that. I worked really hard 2nd semester to maintain all A’s and 1 B because I knew that I couldn’t pass Physics with an A no matter how hard I tried. I was able to do so. Because of that determination, I felt that I could continue that drive until end of Junior Year. I maintained a 3.86 until junior year. Junior year has been one of the best yet worst years of my life. My uncle who is working and decided to go back to college forced me to do his college homework because he isn’t fluent in English. My parents bickered and fought a lot, and I was the one who had to break it up and take care of my little brother. My grandpa, whom I was extremely close to, died of prostate cancer. To fill the missing void I had, I volunteered a lot and was super active in my school’s Key Club because I simply love helping others, but my mom despised that. My mother had been very strict with me this year. She locked me outside of the house many times, forcing me to sleep outside, provide my own food because she believed that I was too into my extracurriculars. That caused me to not be able to focus on my academics. My mental health was extremely low and I was always depressed. Everything seemed to go downhill ever since the beginning of my junior year and that caused my grades to drop. I was on the verge of failing all of my classes but I managed to pass all of them beside math. I messed up bad. Although personally my experience was arduous, I still feel that my problems are minuscule and that colleges won’t understand.
Right now, I am very scared because I really want to make my mother proud by attending a UC, preferably UCI. However, my GPA is really bothering me because it is so low and it’s too late to try to bring it up. Community college is an option for me but I’d still like to know if I have a shot at any 4-years and if there’s anything else I can do to try to strengthen my chances.