<p>^ Well f*** me it is real… And somewhat depressing, considering I was no longer a citizen of the state of VIRGINia when I was 16 and I’m not a manho or a playa by any strech of the imagination.</p>
<p>^^ RIGHT! I was like…mmmm…maybe they’re not virgins? maybe they’re all pretty woman and don’t kiss on the mouth unless they’re in love. But I don’t know, this is CC so I guess.</p>
<p>^ How? I’d be willing to bet that at least among the male members it may be correlated to a severe lack of “game”. Idk about the girls though maybe they are just prudes…</p>
<p>I don’t know, even the ugliest people I’ve seen get kissed. It’s usually just the very reclusive or something like that.</p>
<p>I don’t think premarital sex causes much problems for girls. I think maybe having it at an early age because you’re just not that mature and the attachments involved. </p>
<p>Otherwise what baffles me is this kind of treatment like premarital sex is something new! I mean, it’s not a modern issue, it’s been happening since marriage and before marriage it was just “sex”. Now it’s this issue that I just don’t understand at all because people have been having sex before marriage for the longest time and it’s incredibly common and the world and society are in no way crumbling or losing morality any more than before. I mean, in all likely hood your parents had sex before marriage (whether they tell you so or not, they were baby boomers or flower children and they had sex a lot) and I think most of us will as well and there’s nothing wrong with that.</p>
<p>^Yeah. I swear I see ugly people getting all their kisses…but maybe its because of personality and your social standing.
I don’t know.</p>
<p>I know some really attractive women who choose not to put themselves in a position to get kissed. They save it until they meet their Duke in Shining Armor :p</p>
<p>Yeah… never been kissed. Never had a gf, don’t have game, don’t have a chance of getting a gf, but regarding sex, if it happens it happens. It’s natural. It wasn’t a social paradigm to be married to have sex before.</p>
<p>I’d do it if I could get some. but im just a fat ugly loser so I pretend that I’m against premarital sex.
but in all seriousness, I’m personally against sex before marriage because generally people before marriage (i’m talking about teens) aren’t mature enough to handle a relationship, and it turns into a sexually driven relationship. But if they really love each other, I don’t think the threshold of marriage should be a barrier, or a benchmark for when they can “get down”.</p>
<p>Well, when I entered high school as an innocent freshman, i was totally against it. Now, idk cus i don’t want to wait until marriage to have sex (even though i like the idea of abstinence) and 'cus many of my friends are doing it. You can’t just quit being friends with people just because theyre teenagers and are curious; they’re still great people.</p>
<p>Girls usually get hurt in an emotioinal way because of the hormones that are released. I’m going to wait because I believe there are a lot of hidden benefits that many people don’t hear about that you’d probably have to google for.</p>