<p>I'm a guy, and I've only been told that I'm merely "cute," not "hot" ... but then again I don't really expect to be regarded as "hot" given my size or anything but I do think I have something personality-wise to offer ... =D Of course, I might be overly-idealistic</p>
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Catsushi, you misunderstood him. His passion was for gaming.
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<p>Lethargy, my bad. I suppose I should make the exception for guys who are passionate only about gaming. The guys who create their own games or program and game in their spare time are cool, but the ones who just sit around drinking Mountain Dew while challenging 13 year olds world wide just don't interest me too much.</p>
<p>What do I want in a guy? I want... a guy. Meaning, I don't want a guy who is, like me, feminine. Other than the usual intelligence/looks/humor/loyalty blah blah, the guy has to complement my personality while still retaining his own. I want a guy to have qualities that I don't have to balance our relationship. </p>
<p>See, I'm kinda scatter-brained, I talk too much sometimes, I can get somewhat heated in an argument, I'm careless. I want a guy that can hold his ground, that is understanding when I start going crazy from PMS and is there to hold me and go, "Listen, I know you're on your period, and I understand, but you need to shut the **** up" in the gentlest manner possible (HAHA really!), I want a guy that'll hold me back when I go too far, a guy who keeps his cool. </p>
<p>I DON'T want a guy that's submissive and will bend to my every whim... I have a slightly dominating personality, in that if I can do certain things I will, so I need a guy that won't get trampled over by me, that'll keep me in my place sorta. Then again, I don't want a guy that will dominate the relationship and control everything we do either. He has to be polite and sweet, but without being too much of a wussy, without ever losing that sense of control he has in the relationship. </p>
<p>It's kinda hard to describe what I want in a guy, haha. I guess what I want is an old-fashioned kinda guy, like a man from the 20's and 30's. A man that loves his family and wife but still knows how to be a man, you know?</p>
<p>collegeheopful, I'm mixed race: 1/8 chinese 1/4 japanese 1/8 polish 1/2 italian</p>
<p>catsushi, I completely agree
Playing video games isn't a a ledgit activity, neither is studying.</p>
<p>"I guess what I want is an old-fashioned kinda guy, like a man from the 20's and 30's. A man that loves his family and wife but still knows how to be a man, you know?"</p>
<p>You want a married guy?? With KIDS?! HOMEWRECKER!</p>
<p>lol, I read the first couple of posts, and the last couple of posts, and I'm having trouble figuring out what this thread is about.</p>
<p>"lol, I read the first couple of posts, and the last couple of posts, and I'm having trouble figuring out what this thread is about."</p>
<p>lol, same here.
In response to the op, here's what I think (even though I'm a guy):
Physical attraction is everything...</p>
<p>Pure physical attraction usually leads to having to pay child support. It's also going to lead to divorce if it goes far enough.</p>
<p>^^ok........</p>
<p>roses&clovers so where does the bias against non indian asians come from?</p>
<p>"You want a married guy?? With KIDS?! HOMEWRECKER!"</p>
<p>HAHA LOL ok, ok, flub on my part. Well, you know what I mean!</p>
<p>no bias</p>
<p>just no attraction. don't know why</p>
<p>"lol, I read the first couple of posts, and the last couple of posts, and I'm having trouble figuring out what this thread is about."
-sevitagen and stone_cutter-</p>
<p>haha you have to read the in between stuff too..it gets pretty amusing lol</p>
<p>Be an alpha male. Don't be a pussy.</p>
<p>oh yeah and stone_cutter "Physical attraction is everything"
I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with that. Sure, physical attraction may be the thing that a relationship initially starts with, however thats on the surface..and on the surface only holds up for so long. In the end it's under the surface that ultimately matters.</p>
<p>^^i think he was joking</p>
<p>but then he might not be</p>
<p>jamesford, i know. haha</p>
<p>siglio21..true. he may be joking, but then again who really knows right?</p>
<p>"oh yeah and stone_cutter "Physical attraction is everything"
I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with that. Sure, physical attraction may be the thing that a relationship initially starts with, however thats on the surface..and on the surface only holds up for so long. In the end it's under the surface that ultimately matters."</p>
<p>But physical attraction IS the the thing that a relationship initially starts with -- which means if it wasn't for physical attraction, a relationship wouldn't begin -- which kinda means physcial attraction is the most important thing...</p>
<p>If physical attraction was everything, then I would not be dating the girl I'm dating now. She's definitely not the most gorgeous one out there, but there's more to a girl than just looks.</p>