<p>Intellect, integrity, wit. <33333333</p>
<p>^^ What? Slow guys like:</p>
<p>"He has a 27 minute mile;he is so slow!"</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>"He cannot take a hint. He is so slow sometimes."</p>
<p>^It's most likely "can't take a hint."</p>
<p>I like a smart guy with a sense of humor, but all in all it depends on the guy.</p>
<p>a little off topic but...</p>
<p>what are good things to do during a summer program at a university? the program is very structured with limited time and "must travel in groups" restrictions. i'd like to set up something fun and memorable with a girl. kinda like asking her out, but it's hard to do that because of the program...</p>
<p>i love these topics! hahahaha...just read every post on this thread, well, almost. but everything seems vague. don't digress ppl!</p>
<p>anyways, it's an easy question. for me, i notice looks at first. i may be shallow but who doesn't? if the guy's repulsive looking, chances are, u probably wouldn't even go near him, let alone talking to him and gettin to know him better and goin out w/him. </p>
<p>i don't like guys that are excessively shy...i mean WAYYYY too shy to even say "hi" to you. well, i gotta admit, there was this one exception for me. this guy was ReAlLy cute, <em>big smile</em> but he wouldn't dare to talk to me, so he only stares when we pass each other in the halls...okay okay, i stare at him back too. but c'mon i'm a girl, perhaps i'll never make the first move in this life time. so step it up! and man, he was a football player at my school. i guess that didn't go well w/the stereotype. but i still think he was cute...till this day. so yea that was one of my stories. i'm pathetic i know.</p>
<p>i love guys who are sweet. so generic but true. i agree w/the one person who said that a cake on a random day would be the key. i remember watchin a movie (forgot which) and the guy sent the girl a card w/the words "just cuz it's wednesday" written on it. and i just thought, "omg i would die for that to happen to me". well, the guy has to be one that i like. haha. </p>
<p>even though i don't mind a lil bit of sexual remarks (cuz they'r "funny" to me sometimes...:S), sexual remarks from a guy a barely know are CREEPY. i was in the park jogging the other day and i saw this one guy from school. and he asked me why hadn't the girl i usually jog with come. then he said somethin about her body and then he went, "well, you do have a pretty good body", or somethin along those lines. then, he tried to make me run w/him (we were goin in opposite directions) and mentioned that runnin w/him would "make my butt better lookin" or something. haha...........NO WAY. u creepy.</p>
<p>wait, wth am i typing? LOL. i lost track.
in short, i like someone who is spontaneous, funny, polite, sweet, not fake, smart (no 2.0 GPA's plz...), ambitious (know what they want to do in the future. so even if they slacked off before, it's okay as long as they don't do it again in college/after college). he doesn't have to be the best looking guy. but i do like cute/hot ones. hahahahaha. personality comes first.</p>
<p>oh here's a no-no: don't obsess too much with ur body. i saw a vid on YT and the guys were flexing like crazy on cams. i don't like body-builder bodies. they'r creepy. muscles are great. but not too big...or small. hehe. </p>
<p>alright i'm done</p>
<p>Funny guys. They get me every time. </p>
<p>Guys who can dance really well. </p>
<p>I get all starry-eyed when a guy discusses existentialism and how much David Hume ruled at life...</p>
<p>He can't be really ugly. I agree that the guy has to be somewhat good looking but, he can't be a total idiot. So his personality is also a key factor to attraction.
He has to be smart, not the wise a** smart but, smart like in academics. lol
Being romantic helps a lot in a relationship, especially if its from the guy. So yeaa, he needs to give a lot of attention to his gf, but not too much or that would just seem obsessive. Yet, he has to give her her free time because obviously I can't spend every minute beside my boyfriend or I would get sick of him too quickly.
He can't be a gamer. Gamers tend to be hopeless, desperate losers. Who live their life through the 'virtual world.' I'm not saying they ALL are, but probably most of them. My brother is a gamer to the extreme, so I should know. hehe</p>
<p>Obviously certain types of guys appeal more to certain types of girls.</p>
<p>i like shy guys with dark eyes and dark long-ish hair who don't drink. who can carry intelligent conversations but aren't always too serious. more spontaneous and funny than romantic.
:)</p>
<p>that's just me.</p>
<p>I think I can honestly say for me intelligence > looks. </p>
<p>Unfortunately guys at my school have neither intelligence nor looks.</p>
<p>Entrance, what school do you go to in Long Island?! I'm at Syosset.</p>
<p>I'm actually reading the sincere posts for some reason lol ... they are quite interesting :]</p>
<p>I think intelligence would be overrepresented when you're asking CC girls as opposed to the general public so really this thread should keep in mind that its purely CC girls. I think with most girls; looks>intelligence but looks are less essential in guys as opposed to girls in high schools in general.</p>
<p>ok, so this is an old thread..but i just found it:
I heard about this story about this couple who were married for like 40+ years and everyday the guy wrote a small post it to his wife telling him how much he loved her. I thought it was the cutest thing ever..</p>
<p>I like a guy who's smart, witty,funny, who'll tease me w/o being really mean, who can stand being teased(b/c i do that a lot) and a guy who will talk to me and isn't too shy..i'm really shy, so i can't date a shy guy...</p>
<p>i have a friend who i have a slight crush on, and we got somewhat close by the end of the year, and he would pop up unexpectedly at my locker or give me hugs in the hallway and stuff..i mean, i would never go out with him b/c i don't trust him and i think he unintentionally hurts some girls, but i mean, i did like being suprised and feeling like he took the time of day just to see me for one moment. </p>
<p>anyway, i just wanted to put in my $0.02</p>
<p>another thread revived from the CC graveyard: where old conversations come to be put to rest.</p>
<p>personally, I think intellegence is so sexy. I have been attracted to men who are middle-aged, but I found them to be so interesting, it overrided however I felt about the physical apperance. But then again, I have a little bit of a problem with falling for (waaay) older guys.</p>
<p>creepy ^ someone has an old guy fetish</p>
<p>sevitagen-i can kinda relate :)</p>