<p>What I want to ask is,
do you think some people are born to be loved and some others are not?
do you think you can be loved by trying hard? by trying hard, I mean, get in shape, smile, try to be nice to people and stuff.
I've fallen in love with many people and gave them so much love that hurt me in the end but I feel like no one has loved me that much yet.</p>
<p>I say **** love</p>
<p>Love is just an emotion, although recently I’ve seen some pretty freaky **** with this one girl in my life that is starting to make me wonder if that soulmate bs is real, but I doubt it.</p>
<p>Love is something you find when you aren’t looking. In order to get true, healthy love, you have to be independent enough that you aren’t reliant on another person to be happy. Healthy, mature relationships are between two people with healthy self-esteem that have good things going on in their lives; they don’t need someone else to validate what they’re doing.</p>
<p>What I want to ask is,
do you think some people are born to be loved and some others are not?
do you think you can be loved by trying hard? by trying hard, I mean, get in shape, smile, try to be nice to people and stuff.</p>
<h2>I’ve fallen in love with many people and gave them so much love that hurt me in the end but I feel like no one has loved me that much yet. ~ Road2Sucess</h2>
<p>The last sentence in your post raises some questions.</p>
<p>Assuming you’re a college aged person, the fact that you feel you’ve “fallen in love with many people” shows that either 1) You’ve mistook infatuation, passion, friendship, kinship, companionship or some other strong emotion as love and have incorrectly applied those emotions onto a partner, or 2) You are convincing yourself that you are in love when you truly aren’t, perhaps to satisfy a need to feel secure or project immediate gratification in a relationship.</p>
<p>A college aged person should not be falling in love with many people, if so, it shows there is a psychological issue. You convince yourself you are in love, because, you honestly WANT to love them, but that’s not how a loving relationship developes.</p>
<p>I’m not saying everyone has a single soulmate and it’s impossible to fall in love with more than one person…not saying that, but eventually you will understand that there are different kinds of love in life and they aren’t all equal.</p>
<h2>Love is something you find when you aren’t looking. In order to get true, healthy love, you have to be independent enough that you aren’t reliant on another person to be happy. Healthy, mature relationships are between two people with healthy self-esteem that have good things going on in their lives; they don’t need someone else to validate what they’re doing. ~ Crazyday</h2>
<p>This is good advice.</p>
<p>Kevin Love is a monster, shame he plays for such an awful team…</p>
<p>I’m skeptical of love. I had a fiance once… did I love her? sure, or I thought I did.</p>
<p>But that relationship came easily. It should have some age and evolve.</p>
<p>I’ve been hurt a lot too. the one-sided love thing. Stop doing that, If it is just one person loving, it is unhealthy</p>
<p>I do think there is someone out there for everyone. As my 8th grade math teacher said, “Every pot has its lid.” However, I don’t think you find that person by trying to actively seek them out. I’m under the impression that love just happens, usually when you least expect it. My mom met my dad when she was cleaning windows outside her work, just an example.</p>