<p>For starters, cornell isn't massive, just big. Massive would be a school of 30, 40, even 50 thousand. Cornell is middle sized in terms of a university.</p>
<p>Living in a large school is not hard at all as long as your mildly independent. If you need someone looking over your shoulder every 5 minutes, it's not the place for you, but as long as you can be responsible enough to do your work without someone yelling at you to do it, and as long as you can seek help when you need it (rather than wait for it to come to you) you will be fine.</p>
<p>-It's a very academic environment here, so everyone around you will be focusing on their work. Not at the expense of fun, necessarily, I'm just saying it's not particularly difficult to keep one's mind on his work.</p>
<p>-Nobody is going to come to you and say "dubya-tee-eff, mate?" if halfway through the semester you have a C in every class. However, if you don't like having those Cs, there are more departments and resources (most of which are free) than you could ever want to help you out, like:
*easily accessable deans
*all professors have office hours or will set up meetings with you at your convenience
*review sessions
*learning skills/academic disabilities center
*psychological counseling services
*student organized study groups
*"takenote" review material</p>
<p>For example, I had trouble in spanish this past semester, and the last month of school, I was spending 5 hours outside of class reviewing with a couple other students and my professor, in addition to the 3 hours a week in class and the at home studying. That's the kind of dedication professors have.</p>
<p>I don't know if there are cliques, per se, but there are social groups. Most are based on either location on campus or common interest. There are some groups of people who act exclusive, but then again, if they're going to act like that you probably wouldn't want to hang out with them anyway. The nice thing is that there are so many people that (and please note that this is NOT true, just a hypothetical exampl) even if 1000 students in your class acted cold toward you, you'd still have over 2000 to choose from, just in the class of 2010. I had probably 5 social groups of friends this year: my hall, my girlfriend's hall, my fraternity, my music department friends and, while it's not am explicit group, it was comperable to the other 3 in size, random friend's i'd made.</p>
<p>As you can see, it was based on proximity, interest, and major, for the most part. I would characterize cornell as the more the merrier, as long as you're mildly proactive. In fact, it's sort of like living in a suburban town of 13000 people, all of whom share your interests and are within 2-3 years of your age.</p>
<p>Any further questions and I'd be glad to go into specifics.</p>