You will need to set your own priorities, based on what you want from your college experience. Of course, a student can get a good education at either a more elite or less elite college, because the individual will shape his/her own experience based on attitude and initiative (one could seek out the best opportunities and professors and the smartest peers, and delve deeper into intellectual interests, even at a less “elite” college).
For my son, he and we both wanted an elite college experience for him. Our reasons had little to do with the “post” college aspects that many replies on this thread have emphasized. It was all about the four year experience itself.
Before we went on our first college tour, my son had joked, “I want to go to a college where I’m the dumbest person in the whole school.” He didn’t mean that literally; what he meant was that he wanted to be surrounded by brilliant peers who would provide stimulating conversations. What he needed for college was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to immerse himself for four years in “the life of the mind,” exploring ideas in class discussions, dorms, and dining halls, with his peers and professors.
He is SO glad he is at Williams, although we do think he would have thrived anywhere he went (for the reasons I named in the top paragraph). He compares his education to that of some of his high school friends, and his is right for him:
- One of his friends at one of our state universities (but not one of the three most competitive of our state’s colleges) took a course with the same title and intended content that my son was taking at the same time. My son read primary sources; his friend read a secondary source discussing the primary sources my son read. My son wrote several essays and got feedback on them along the way from the professor; his friend took exams which were partly multiple-choice. My son’s class discussed and debated the issues raised by the content (which it was assumed they had read); his friend sat in lectures that he described as mostly a waste of time because the professor was just summarizing the assigned reading (so some kids skipped class and some skipped the reading). When the student body average capability and motivation are lower, it may be that the professors provide a less challenging education.
- Another one of his friends had basically the same grades and scores as my son in high school, but chose to attend a less elite private college that gave him a completely free education (a four-year merit scholarship covering tuition, room and board, and equipment for his major). He is an optimistic kid and grateful for the free education, but when my son talked about some of the learning he was enjoying at college and said he had gotten “so much smarter” since starting at Williams, his friend said wistfully, “I think I may be getting dumber!” He said his classes are not so stimulating, and his peers don’t as often participate in the types of out-of-classroom intellectual conversations that he and my son enjoy having together and that are the norm at elite colleges.
Do I think that my son’s friend can do as well in his future endeavors as my son will? Sure. I think individuals, not college names, determine their futures. Yes, my kid may have some doors open more easily for him because of the school’s reputation and connections. But that is not what mattered to him as much as enjoying four years of intellectual exploration with like-minded peers.
Virtually everyone at his college reads for fun, cares about learning, studies for hours every day, and likes to talk about ideas. At less elite colleges, those students certainly exist but are harder to find… and professors shape their classes based on the students with whom they work.