<p>Haha, do you have any evidence?</p>
<p>Since it does seem that we girls have taken over, I shall add my 2 cents. Here's the guy I'm looking for, in the majorly condensed version so as not to bore anyone, but still rather long:</p>
<p>Mentally: Smart as I or very slightly more so. Someone who can keep up with random intellectual firewars over the heads of most everyone else present and enjoy it. Someone who can quote disney movies and famous writers with the best of them, or at least with me. ("Oh! I know, I know! It's Ezma, right?" "It's Ezma's birthday!" "Krroooonkk!!!")
Someone who respects me and my love of knowledge, and has his own. Someone who loves to question everything and find all the answers and debate all the serious things in life.</p>
<p>Emotionally: Someone I can trust, run to, cry with, and love. And he has to love me back and not be acting at all when he says it. And he had better be there for me when I need a friend, but give me space to be an individual. I want to be complete without him, but better with him.</p>
<p>Physically: Love sports. Play basketball and ride horses with me. At least 5'10, not shorter than me. Who cares what he looks like, as long as it doesn't hurt to look at him. Of couse given the choice, cuter is better. He had better be an athlete because sloths are boring. I want someone who will play my guitar with me and sing along to all my silly songs.</p>
<p>Morally: Old-school. If you are mine, you are mine alone and same for me. I have no interest in dating anyone without a true set of morals. </p>
<p>Don't anyone tell me he doesn't exist, just because you haven't found him either. I can wait. :)</p>
<p>The others all have proof! I have only seen MissMichelle's picture. And what if I post it and it is <em>gasp</em> not put on the hot list. I don't think I could risk the embarassment haha.</p>
<p>lol...we girls should retaliate wi/ a guys list :D I don't think I deserve to be in the top 5 so far or whatever that is, so don't worry too much, Blythe</p>
<p>This just makes me feel depressed. </p>
<p>Mentally: My IQ borders along the lines of an ant, I look for food through foraging and have no other goals than to be full and content, much like any animal. I show no respect for others but only if they have somethign over me. I have no thirst for knowledge, I am content be be as stupid as I can be, ignorance is bliss. </p>
<p>Emotionally: I hav no emotions other than hunger and my libido. </p>
<p>Physically: I weigh more than is considered normal for a person of my height. I am the shortest man that one can find, below 4 feet. I can't play any instrument, I can can't jump due to my large posterior, my fingers are too short to strum a guitar. A horse would kill me if I rode on it due to my severe leprosy, I have to wear full body clothes all the time.</p>
<p>Morally: I have no morals other than those that I need for my survival.</p>
<p>All in all, I am just a repulsive human being, if even that.</p>
<p>I've only seen one or two guy pictures. I am missing out on all the good stuff haha!</p>
<p>my picture is somewhere around cc...</p>
<p>and i'm sure you're hot blythe, just have confidence in your hotness.</p>
<p>lol that's a joke, mees, right?</p>
<p>and I really haven't seen many guys' pictures, either, I was thinking it would be a collaborative/conspiratorial effort :p</p>
<p>The fact that you even have to ask that question confounds me. It's like those peopel go who go up to adopted kids' parents and ask "how much did it cost?" The insensitivity and plain ignorance disgusts me.</p>
<p>well excuse me and I'm sorry for being insensitive :(</p>
<p>Chill out meestasi dude don't hate on such a cool girl.</p>
<p>actually, my biggest fear is that someone I know will be floating around one of these boards and recognize me. Although it is nearly impossible :p</p>
<p>No, don't be sorry, actually, I was trying to make a point that most guys will never be perfect. You can go looking for the perfect person, he'll come to you. I'm pretty sure that your future spouse will not be how you imagined him to be, and will have some flaws somewhere. Having set criteria is never good, especially if you follow them religiously. There should always be roomf ro adjustment and change. People never won wars by having a set strategy, they always adapted. Just like species never survived without adaptation and evolution.</p>
<p>you are very right meestasi...I find that everytime I start to "like" a guy, I am willing to set aside and ignore his faults to enjoy his personality...so far though, I keep ignoring faults that I shouldn't :(</p>
<p>Who's excited of the girls here for college move-in day? I'll be waiting for that sweet guy who's willing to help me carry my stuff around :)</p>
<p>You're expecting us to be slaves for you girls? Whatever happened to that independent and strong woman? I miss those days when girls would be like "f*** off" whenever I tried to help them. Ahh, the glorious days of youth.</p>
<p>helloooo!! basic female instinct from the hunter-gatherer days...it's your job to protect us, and we'll be assertive when it suits us</p>
<p>and I said <em>help</em>, not do all the work for me...what I really meant was, say "hey" and smile or something</p>
<p>True. The things I mentioned are not set criteria. But if you read them, it's not a lot to ask. I know several guys who "fit" those that I just am not attracted to. Honestly, I have left tons of breathing room for those "not so perfect guys". And I agree with everything you said. That's just what I am looking for if I had a complete choice</p>
<p>Well, I'm sure those of the male race can meet those lofty standards of yours now. Sorry, but I'm having fun with this overstatement. If you even needed help and Iw as there, I would be honored to carry your luggage to your room.</p>
<p>lol. Sorry, I meant emotional help. I carry my own luggage</p>
<p>well I would appreciate the company, and it would cut down on the number of trips I'd have to take</p>