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<p>Then you’re going after people way out of your league. Or you’re the one trying to date jerks.</p>
<ul>
<li>My friend first </li>
<li>Good sense of humor [or at least compatible with mine…the decency of my humor is questionable] </li>
<li>Tall[er than me which isn’t hard to do but I’ve seen a few guys dip below my height which sort of surprised me] </li>
<li>Fit </li>
<li>Intelligent </li>
<li>Driven </li>
<li>Attractive to me<br></li>
<li>Emotionally in-tune as in…can be serious and talk about important things or can goof off given the tone.
there ya go :)</li>
</ul>
<p>I agree with MissSilvestris on this. </p>
<p>If a nice guy gets turned down, it’s because he’s lacking in another area that the girl is looking for. For me, the nicest guys I know in school are all lacking in brains. The few guys I know who are NICE and SMART and FUNNY all have girls racing after them. </p>
<p>As for what makes a guy/girl irresistible to me, I say:
-brains
-NICE person. Brains without nice is not okay. Nice without brains is also not okay.
-funny. This is something that will make me fall faster =P
-Gentleman-like. Really! I love it when a person will hold the door open for me, or walk me to a certain place (like, say, a bus stop) because it’s late at night and therefore a bit more dangerous to a girl.
-Treats family well- respects parents, nice to siblings etc. That is, unless there is a good reason not to.
-EDIT: As far as looks go I’m not very picky. Like most girls I want someone taller than me, or at least equal to my height. I’m around 5’3". Oh and obesity is a no, too, lol. It’s not that I hate obese people, its just, we’re talking about our ideal person, right?</p>
<p>@misssilvestris
I’ve notice that most girls mean the exact opposite of what they say. </p>
<p>For me if she has green eyes I’m hooked</p>
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This is something I have heard a lot, but never seen much evidence for.</p>
<p>OH it’s so true</p>
<p>My girlfriend will be obviously upset by something. I ask her what’s wrong. She says “nothing.” I ask a few more times and she finally says what’s wrong.</p>
<p>I don’t get it.</p>
<p>She wants ya to know whats wrong and try to make it better, without asking ;)… But that doesnt mean always start kissing her ass when something is wrong because a lot of the time she’s just being a sook…in which case tell her that and tell her to get over it…girls are like that…its almost like the thing thats wrong doesnt even really matter they just want your attention and to know that you care…hence they will let you ask over and over again usually just getting more upset because if you keep asking it shows that you care…and thats what they’re after…but if you always give them this attention and care so much about every little thing, yea they may like it at the time…but eventually for some reason something will click and they will start to loose attraction for you…I don’t think they can’t control it it just happens…and bam you’re out. Well that was a rant.</p>
<p>Yeah, I know asking over and over makes it worse… I generally ask twice or thrice and after that it’s done. I almost always make it better when she actually tells me what’s wrong.</p>
<p>Also, irresistible: girl who likes guns.</p>
<p>I buy my girl dove chocolate and a can of pepsi and she cheers up instantly.</p>
<p>60% of the time, it works everytime</p>
<p>lol I like your style</p>
<p>MissSilvestris, I’m not even talking about <em>me</em> necessarily. I don’t date and never have. I’m talking about how I’ve observed other men being treated.</p>
<p>Face>fashion style>behind>chest>legs>arms>everything else</p>
<p>Should be above average in intelligence
Should not be overly cutesy
Shorter than me…
Being east asian is a plus
Not sarcastic
Very stylish. I like fashionable women. With expensive clothing.
Not stick thin nor fat</p>
<ul>
<li>make sandwiches </li>
<li>not a supporter of the tea party</li>
<li>common sense</li>
</ul>
<p>yes yes i have low standards</p>
<p>(lol @ zala2022’s post. in parentheses because i have nothing to contribute to this thread)</p>
<p>-southern belle accents are so sexy.</p>
<p>A pulse</p>
<p>Now I have to make this 10 characters.</p>
<p>If she does an “I want you” with her lips and eyes and she is well proportioned. That is just pure irresistible.</p>
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<p>amen my brutha</p>
<p>If you want to get a girl, here’s what you do:</p>
<p>Be everything her friends and parents hate. Be a complete jerkface. Treat her like garbage, but say like one nice thing to her. You do have to shower and smell nice though. But it’s important to be a bad boyfriend.</p>
<p>Here’s why:
Girls will want to fix you up and prove everyone wrong that says you’re terrible for her. If her parents say, “He’s terrible! You shouldn’t date him!”, she’ll want you even more, because she dreams of saying, “Ha! I turned this useless jerkface into a great guy and it’s all because of ME!”</p>
<p>That’s what girls really want. They want a guy they can fix up and take credit for. </p>
<p>Or, have a girlfriend. If there’s a girl you like, just find another girl you don’t like, make her your girlfriend and talk about her around the girl you like. </p>
<p>I can tell you that, she’ll want to steal you away from your girlfriend because if some other girl wants you, she wants you to herself.</p>
<p>Isn’t that whole “they want to fix you up” thing used as an argument for why women stay with abusive spouses?</p>