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<p>this (plus some other standards)</p>
<p>Brains, pecs, good taste in music, and a sense of humor.
Dimples are a bonus.</p>
<p>Thank you my brutha. Ya see, even women I’ve talked to about this agree with me. It seems to be a phenomenon of modern Western women. Women in Asia and Eastern Europe seem to be immune to it. According to my grandmother, nobody in her generation went for “bad boys.”</p>
<p>haha yes you have so much personal experience wrt this</p>
<p>I want a woman who can kill a man with only her thumbs</p>
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<p>They already drive automobiles these days… Isn’t that enough?</p>
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<li><p>Decently good looking (but not too goodlooking as I hate having to beat off the rest of the girls chasing after him 
)</p></li>
<li><p>Deep scruffy voice… oh how that makes me hot and bothered</p></li>
<li><p>Great sense of humor</p></li>
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<p>Too bad I already met the ideal man, and he decided to move abroad… gaaaaah</p>
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Haha. I am a woman who is an amateur racer and this cracks me up. :)</p>
<p>fair skin, blue or green eyes, petite with good curves, full lips, and a gorgeous face.</p>
<p>-Amy Adams</p>
<p>Obviously not looking for all of this in the same guy because that would be impossible:</p>
<p>I like nerdy guys who like manga or comics or fantasy novels.
I like French boys. ;D
I like guys who dress in something other than a t-shirt and jeans every day.
I like guys who think getting lost downtown at night is fun, not scary.
I like guys with messy or curly or long hair.
I like guys who like poetry.
I like guys who can cook.
I like guys who laugh a lot.
I like guys who don’t like getting $hitfaced drunk and who don’t smoke.
I like guys I can argue with about politics and still like them afterwards. </p>
<p>Looks? Idk, tall or short, any race. The two things I don’t really like are the huge huge muscle thing and mustaches. </p>
<p>There is no way in hell I am going to try to ‘fix up’ some bad boy.</p>
<p>Didn’t read the thread.</p>
<p>For me, an attractive girl possesses these qualities:</p>
<p>-Takes care of herself physically, in shape, dresses nicely, makes an effort
Going along with above point, she has to actually be physically attractive. This isn’t always a choice for women, but hey, life isn’t fair.
-Very outgoing
-Extremely confident in herself, high self-esteem
-Flirtatious, a little risque, able to talk about anything be it sex, whatever, without feeling awkward
-Not too serious, looking for a good time
-Very independent (Girls that are too clingy or dependent on me get tossed out quick)
-Adventurous
-Sophisticated, but doesn’t show it off</p>
<p>Yeah, I have pretty high standards.</p>
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<p>Given your list you sound like a dork and are therefore probably ugly and no bad boy would even want you. I’ve never seen a hot girl with the type of guy you described.</p>
<p>" -Amy Adams "</p>
<p>oh god yes, I didn’t see the movie but she looked beautiful in the trailers for “Leap Year”</p>
<p>@setphasers you can find a guy like that in any hipster neighborhood</p>
<p>Girls who are very physically attractive, but don’t act like they know they are.</p>
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<li>Smart, obviously.</li>
<li>Great sense of humor. (It’s become a cliche, but whatever. I want to be a comedy writer, I can’t deal with dating stick-in-the-mud types. Been there, done that, wanted to blow my brains out.)</li>
<li>Both of the above coupled with knowing when to shut up. Nothing is worse than the jerk who’s so convinced that he’s the most interesting dude in the room and constantly has to prove it.</li>
<li>Wears a lot of plaid, Nikes, the occasional white dress shirt with rolled up sleeves, Clark Kent glasses. A little bit of scruff. Smells good.</li>
<li>Is into stuff like history (genuinely interested in it, I’m not sure why I find this attractive but whatever), comics, politics, improv/sketch comedy, etc. Interesting taste in music is a plus.</li>
<li>Dark hair. I’ve never been attracted to blond guys, for some reason.</li>
</ul>
<p>So, you know, form an orderly line. Or not.</p>
<p>I wouldnt date a girl with a crappy attitude.</p>
<p>my most important aesthetic feature in a girl is for sure the ass. Boobs arent even that important. Nothing better than a tight, but thick, ass in a pair of booty shorts.</p>
<ul>
<li>Having a gentleman attitude.</li>
<li>Doesn’t talk too much. A little bit serious, has a witty sense of humor.</li>
<li>Seems indifferent but caring inside.</li>
<li>Smarter, or has a higher IQ, than me. (in which, without trying to be cocky, he has to have >155) ;D</li>
<li>Can talk about everything.</li>
<li>Plays Beethoven sonatas etc. I simply adore musical guys!
And the last of utmost importance:</li>
<li>I know ‘the one’ just by looking at his eyes and seeing him laugh and smile.</li>
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<p>Lol…is it weird that I thought of this thread when I was re-watching Mary Poppins and the two kids were singing about their “ideal” nanny…I think it fits well :p. </p>
<p>If you want this choice position,
Have a cheery disposition.
Rosy cheeks, no warts!
Play games, all sorts.
You must be kind,
You must be witty,
Very sweet, and fairly pretty…(or handsome). </p>
<p>:)</p>
<p>The kind of qualities I look for in a guy are…</p>
<p>Intellect - Please have a brain in your head. 
Seriously I am so over idiots</p>
<p>Darkish hair (actually, I don’t really care, but I noticed that I tend to like guys with darker hair)</p>
<p>A sense of humor - someone who can make me genuinely laugh! I admit it’s not that hard to do so, but still, if we can’t laugh then it’s never going to work :P</p>
<p>Someone who is not a pushover, a jerk, an a**hole, excessively rude, slobby, cruel, etc. - Being a nice gentlemen is really not that difficult, and trust me, I remember when people are nice to me :)</p>
<p>Decent build - I’m not a fan of ridiculous muscles or people who are considerably overweight. Each extreme is unhealthy :(</p>
<p>Someone who’s my height or taller - This sounds shallow, I know, but I’m 5’10", so finding a guys who is even an inch taller than me is amazing!</p>
<p>In general, someone who will like me, for me (:</p>