What should I do?

<p>Hello. I am almost 21 years old. I graduated high school in June of 2009. From September 2009- June 2011 I attended my local CC. I didn't earn my associates degree though. (I was way off because I changed my course of study) I wanted to get out of my house as soon as possible because I was sick and tired of my house, family, and town. I transferred to a four year college that was five hours away. I did one semester (Fall 2011) and decided to drop out after the semester was over, and go back home because I was very unhappy where I was.</p>

<p>I am not the greatest student. I slacked off a lot in high school. In CC I didn't do as well as I could have because I skipped classes several times, dropped a few classes, and failed one. (I know it was my fault.) I didn't do so well at the four year school either. I was so miserable that I stopped caring. I passed everything (two B's a C+ and a D). </p>

<p>I know I could to better in school. I have such a hard time getting started on assignments, staying focused, and paying attention in class. The littlest things distract me, and I'm so restless. I jump from one thing to the next. (It has always been like that for me) I was thinking about finishing my degree online, but with my attention problems, I don't think that is a good idea. Besides, I think I would do better face to face with classes like math and English. (my weak subjects)</p>

<p>Now that I have been home for a little over a month, I have a huge desire to get back into college. I want to go to a different school than the two I have attended. I just don't know if I should go back just yet (for the Fall) or wait a whole year. I don't want to make the same mistake I did before. I want to be happy with the school I choose. I would like some advice on what I should do. Should I research schools (more in-depth than the one school I looked at and attended for the Fall of 2011)? Should I talk to a counselor and/ or my mom? Will colleges even give me a chance knowing I would be transferring schools a second time? My overall GPA isn't terrible, it isn't as good as I know it could be. Or should I just finish the two year degree at the CC? I want to avoid that if possible. I want to get more experience away from home in a new situation. Goodness knows, I need to gain social skills. </p>

<p>Any advice would be greatly appreciated! I can't sleep because I get so anxious thinking about it. I am probably over thinking this whole thing. If I could re-do my college career, I would (as long as I would know what I do now). Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post! Who ever got through that long winded post gets a cookie! Haha!</p>

<p>Wow this is exactly the situation I’m in now…incredible lol. I too slacked in high sxhool,went to CC, then transferred to a huge university last fall. I do good academic wise though the problem was I didn’t find my major appealing at all. Still unsure whatto study, so here I am back at home in this pos town just finishing this semester to get my LA degree…really can’t believe I’m back where I was a year ago. Im really missing the carefree social life at my last university… even if I went back to that school in the fall ,most people I became close to would be gone… But I wouldn’t go back since the school indeed made me miserable.</p>

<p>I too am considering whether or not to go back to another university in the fall…honestly I want to have that epic college experience while forming new friendship’s and connections… Then the other part of me wants to move out west after I get my AA(been ready to move out of state forever and have the mons saved up)… 5)work then go back to college after gaining residence. Tho I feel I’d be to old to have the real college experience by then.</p>

<p>I too seeking advice though not many people respond to posts on this forum! </p>

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<p>As a community college student right now, I suggest you go back to community college maybe for a year, get your GPA higher, refocus. While at community college, talk to your counselor. See what he or she recommends for you. You can do it. Just put your head down and power through. I believe that there is a college that is fit for everyone. Transfer and get your Bachelors. GO!</p>