What the heck just happened last night (Story)...

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<p>I went out yesterday and was walking back to my dorm last night at around 1 - 1: 30 AM. I was coming back from a disappointing party that had been broken up by a bunch of people and cops. I waking back by myself.</p>

<p>This good looking girl starts to walk next to me and introduces herself. We exchange a conversation and all that. Her name, my name, where she lives where i live, etc. We get to the end of the side walk and she looks at me. She was wearing jeans and a non revealing top, something I thought not many freshman softmore's, or even juniors where on a party night.</p>

<p>She then tells me a story about how her roommate is gone for the night and how she is locked out and needs a place to stay. She asked me all these typical flirting questions, like what year are you ( I said Junior, she said softmore. I look older than my age easily people say) She looked like someone in her 20's easily. She was asking me all the questions.</p>

<p>I thought to myself at that moment that I could get laid right now if I offered her my room. From the way she was talking, being locked out was not a problem, but finding someone's room in a dormitory across campus from her's was the solution. The girl also seemed very good looking as far as I could tell under a street light.</p>

<p>I was obviously thinking to myself from the way she was talking to me that she wanted to .....do some things; however, I had one problem.</p>

<p>I immediately thought to myself after she told me her story that no girl with any decency would ask a guy on the street to room with him for the night. Because of this, I was thinking she might have had STD's or fungi growth or whatever the hell because she seems she would get with a lot of people. I didn't have a condom on me, and idk if they would help if she had an infection or some other crap.</p>

<p>So, I put my hand on her arm and said...............................................................have a good night, and walked away.</p>

<p>I kept on walking and after 30 seconds I swore and thought to myself I could have gotten laid in my first 6 days in college....I was P**Sed off. I could not find that girl again down the street. I missed one of the coolest opportunities I have gotten because I took my instinctive way out. </p>

<p>I have been thinking about this all last night and today. I couldn't go to sleep. I didn't know if I had just screwed myself for being a pussey or I made the right decision...</p>

<p>Anyone have any comments on this? Will this ever happen again if I walk down sidewalks by myself at 1:00 at night? haha</p>

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<p>You left a poor girl to sleep on the streets because you figured if she slept in your room you HAD to have sex with her, nice.</p>

<p>j/k sorta</p>

<p>I would have asked to see her school ID and then let her crash on the couch or something.</p>

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<p>I personally think you made the right decision. She sounded really sketchy in my opinion. I actually didn’t think about STD’s when you first brought her up, but perhaps she was a thief and wanted to get into your apartment and steal stuff from it. Plenty of my friends have had many things stolen from there dorms, so it’s nothing out of the ordinary either.</p>

<p>It just seems really sketchy to me that a random girl would come out of nowhere at 1:00 am in the morning and be so bold to talk to a male all alone. Women are typically careful about being all alone with males they don’t know (for good reasons), and I’d be immediately skeptical of the woman if I was in your situation.</p>

<p>I could be wrong, I mean we could both be paranoid and maybe she was just horny, but it just seems too out of the ordinary for me to just passively accept her into my apartment and have sex with her.</p>

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<p>hahaha thats why i said on the list of thing to bring to school was a big box of condoms cause you never know man you should of found a store or something thats open 24 hours i know how you feel though</p>

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<p>…HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, what kind of monster are you?!</p>

<p>Jk lol only a little.</p>

<p>In regards to what Nietzche (I’m actually gonna be reading some of his works in philosophy this semester) I think it depends. I know a few girls who are bold enough to approach a guy on their own and there are always gonna be some people walking around at night, especially after a party or the club.</p>

<p>But consider this: You’re assuming you were going to have sex with her if she’d come back to your dorm. You could’ve taken her back and just let her crash there and made a new friend lol I know that she was sending the right signals in your mind, but girls can be tricky sometimes.</p>

<p>Personally, I would’ve asked for her school ID and if it checked out I would’ve let her crash. Would I have slept with her? Maybe. STD’s are a big fear and something you should always watch out for. If I had a condom I would have, but if I didn’t I wouldn’t have.</p>

<p>Will this situation happen again? Heck if I know lol college is made up of moments like this. You’ll meet a really cool person, not get their number and never see them again. Just depends. There’s always a chance it could happen though.</p>

<p>You’ll have other moments like this where you’ll look back a few minutes later and realize you messed up lol just learn from it and do better next time. Who knows, you might see that girl around school (If you remember what she looks like) But you know her name anyways don’t you?</p>

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<p>Maybe she’s a dracula trying to suck your blood =)
I’m kidding lol. Good decision. Most good-looking girls won’t go around flirting guys like that, especially @1a.m. Must be sth.</p>

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<p>The thief part comes to mind.</p>

<p>It’s really odd that any girl would come up to a guy randomly on the street and do something that bold when they could have easily done the same at a party or bar in a much less sketchy way.</p>

<p>I’ve had a similar incident before with this one girl who tried similar techniques (although much earlier in the evening), and after a large amount of subtle probing, she slipped up and ended up revealing that she just wanted to extract a free meal from me. That didn’t happen. :)</p>

<p>Opportunities come all the time, but don’t let yourself be vulnerable.</p>

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<p>You might have made the right choice in the end, but you’re still a ■■■■■. You admitted that you were regretting it which means the real reason for you saying no was your nerves.</p>

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<p>Give me a break. Girls that are that bold aren’t bambi in the woods…they always want something and know what buttons to push to get it. If you have nothing to lose you might try “tits or ■■■■”…</p>

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<p>yeah i would’ve been sketched out by it too.</p>

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<p>You did the rational thing. It had to have been a scheme–what kind of girl would trust a guy she met two minutes prior?</p>

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<p>Umm, she didn’t have ANY girlfriends that she could call and stay with? None? Or guy friends for that matter? The only person she could stay with was a random guy she met at 1:30am? Highly unlikely. I think you made the right decision. Quite sketchy.</p>

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<p>If it’s too good to be true, then it probably is. I don’t know of any girl who would go up to a guy they just met and want to crash in their place without an ulterior motive.</p>

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<p>You would think that shed have a friend that was a girl nearby or even a guy she knew- so it was kinda sketchy but maybe look her up on FB (you know her name- right)</p>

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<p>Eurosport360 - I’m now a hypocrite for calling you a ■■■■■, a very similar situation happened to me Saturday night but worse in the sense I had been speaking to her all night. It’s fair to say I’m an idiot.</p>

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<p>Story?..</p>

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<p>Have you seen her since</p>