<p>Tdkeerthi,</p>
<p>I think I have hit quite a few bases already. Here are a few tips for a future TAMS student.</p>
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<li> Studying- Do it often. You are going to get a whole lot of study tips and advice right from the start at TAMS. I know that you have heard stupid study tips in the past, but this time, they mean it. Basically, this is not high school and you cannot succeed through cramming like before. The material is very difficult and there is not a whole lot of wiggle room in the grades. One really bad exam will sink your semester. Take the classes seriously and appreciate the depth of the material. Study seriously and consistently. There will be plenty of need for late night cramming, but the real work will be done day-to-day. If you can keep a good pace, you will succeed. Many students will learn this the hard way the first semester by refusing to change their tactics in the face of new circumstances. Be smart and start on the right path from the beginning.</li>
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<p>With that said, be realistic about your studying to. TAMS is about academics, but the true TAMS experience lies in the opportunities around McConnell Hall. Study to succeed, but don’t feel guilty, anxious, or stressed because you took an evening to go to some club meetings. Trust me, you can afford the two hours you lose in studying time to go to the Rec Center with friends and hang out in Mac Lounge.</p>
<p>TAMS is not for some people, even those who get admitted. Some people will not come back for a second semester. Some will not be allowed to return for senior year. There is some flexibility for poor grades in the first semester, but after that, its 3.0 or bust. Your high school has an obligation to carry you and get you to graduation. TAMS will help those with difficulties as much as possible, but once its clear that the student isn’t going to succeed, TAMS will not draw out their suffering. It doesn’t mean these people are stupid or lazy, it just means TAMS was not a good fit and the student is not going to benefit from the experience. Most of those who leave will go back to their home school at the top of their class.</p>
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<li><p>Sleeping, eating and basic hygiene- Do those things fairly often too. At TAMS, save for some very reasonable restrictions, you can live your life pretty much however you like. Except in dire situations, no one will tell you when to eat, sleep, shower, go to the doctor, study, or stop studying. It’s all on you. Some will relish in this new found independence. Many will crash and burn by playing Minecraft all night and living off of Ramen. While some will actually be able to pull off this venerable lifestyle, many more will suffer serious consequences try to pull it off.</p></li>
<li><p>Discipline- Teenagers don’t like rules. Period. I get it. Even the most reasonable restriction on your freedom is seen as an afront to justice and the American way. With that said, TAMS has a fairly comprehensive student discipline system, including chances to present a defense, appeal to higher authorities, and to ask for policy changes. When you look at the TAMS student handbook, you’ll see a list of rules like a very liberal curfew (11pm on weeknights, 1am on weekends, up for negation on a case-by-case basis for special events), quiet hours (no loud music after 8pm, etc), and other basic guidelines for living as a functioning human being (no roughhousing, littering, fighting, vandalism, stealing, etc). These rules set a very loose parameter of conduct. Of course, there are also very clear restrictions on alcohol and drugs (ZERO TOLERANCE- If anything is found in any form, you will be out of the dorm that night. I’ve seen seniors get expelled the week before graduation.)</p></li>
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<p>Basically, every rule in the book has a funny story justifying its existence. Some will be careless about following these rules. They will usually be caught, receive a light punishment (usually a small assignment of discipline points, say 5 points for running in the halls. 50 points gets something like a supervise probation, 100 means expulsion. I never saw anyone get to 100 without including a very serious offense like drugs), and then given a chance to learn the underlying lesson. Others will see the rules as a challenge for them to defy, They will spend a lot of time and effort trying to find loop holes and ways to get away with things. Some will pull it off, but those that get caught will regret the consequences. These people will be unhappy and often have academic issues. Most students will get few if any recorded rules violations.</p>
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<li>Staff- The TAMS staff is a combination of full-time staff members responsible for the day-to-day management of the program and the dorm. They are mostly fair, hardworking, and well-meaning. Sometimes they will have to be the bad guys and give students a reality-check, but most of the time, they are supportive friends and colleagues. They all have open doors and will do everything they can to help IF YOU COME TO THEM. If you don’t know who Kevin Roden is by the end of the first year, you’re doing TAMS wrong.</li>
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<p>Most of your staff interaction will be with part-time, live-in Resident Assistants. They are college students, often majoring in math and science fields. You may even take a class or two with an RA. They will be your primary link to the staff and administration. You will talk to them at least once a day at room checks. They will monitor your health and well-being and will help you with any problem you can throw their way, IF YOU ASK THEM. They will be like a camp counselor, fun and friendly, but will keep your ass in line for your own good. They take their jobs seriously and have no life as a result. RA’s have a 1am curfew, not to mention 11pm room checks. For a college student, that’s rough. Treat them with a semblance of dignity and respect, and you’ll make a close friend who has your back.</p>
<p>TAMS also has Program Advisors, who are also live-in college students. They are usually RA’s who were promoted. They don’t have assigned student wings. Rather, they lead the staff in several parts of the job, work as the Hall Director On-Call during nights and weekends, and most importantly of all, advise student organizations. They are the crafty veterans of TAMS. Club execs will spend a lot of time with PA’s, but most juniors won’t. All of them will do pretty much an RA will do for you, IF YOU ASK THEM. If you don’t know what the PA’s by the end of junior year, you’re doing it wrong.</p>
<p>I hope this gives you some insights. I typed too much. Also, tdkeerthi, ask better questions. This is the last time I’m going to do a general rant. From here on out, I’m going to need something more specific.</p>