<p>Roshke - Congrats that things have worked out for you, and your S. You are to be commended on making the right decision, or letting your S make the right decision. However...</p>
<p>I am not expert on statistics, and can only speak for our state, and more specifically for our local community, and the public and private schools near us. Many of the stats that you mention are not the case in our community. </p>
<p>We chose a private school, over the local public school </p>
<p>Total school population: The local public school has over 2,100 students. Our private school has about 400 (boys only).</p>
<p>Class size: my son is in a AP Physics class with 13 total students. Average class size for all classes is around 20. My S has never been in a class with over 30. At the public school, the average class size is about 30. </p>
<p>Population preselected? At the Pvt school, there ARE some students whose parents went to the same school. However, most did not. I did not go to a private high school, nor did my wife. I am not overly successful. My EFC is in the 20k range (not rich by any means). Yes, some students have parents who are quite successful. One of the luxeries of being rich (for them) is being able to send their kids to a school with smaller class size, etc. For my wife and I, we have had to pass up getting new cars, and pass up taking fancy vacations - because for us, it was the best use of our limited funds (to send our S to the best possible school). We have watched friends and neighbors, who chose the huge public school for their S & D, as they have gotten new cars far more often than us, and have taken several enjoyable cruise vacations (while we have never been on a cruise). It is a matter of priorities. Different strokes for different folks.</p>
<p>SAT scores: I would like say "you have got to be kidding" - but i do not know your local area, so will trust your information to be accurate. Here, it is night and day. First, the public school only has 35%-40% of their seniors even take the SAT. At my S school, over 90% take the SAT. His school SAT average was more than 50 points higher than all public schools in our county (not just the local one that my S would have attened). If you consider that for the public school, in which 35%-40% even took the SAT, that those were probably the students most motivated, and who probably would have scored the highest had 90% of the public school taken the SAT. If you take the highest 35%-40% at my son's school, then that average score is over 150 points higher than the public schools. </p>
<p>College Acceptances?: Again, you must live in a very nice area, for your public school to have the same acceptance numbers as the private school. At the local public school, only about 50% even go onto college. At our S's school, the rate is over 90% going to college. It would take too much space to list the schools that they are accepted at, but in summary, many of USNEWS top 10 accept kids from his son. </p>
<p>Better paid, and better educated teachers: I do not know the salaries of the teachers at our private school, nor at the public school, so based on salary, you might be correct. I do know that an awful lot of them (at my son's school) have Master's degrees, and a couple have their doctorate or MBA degrees. I do not know the number of teachers at the public school with advanced degrees. I do not that our teachers our very available (email and phone). We have multiple meetings each year with our teachers. I have heard sad stories from friends who have a difficult time reaching the teachers at the local public school.</p>
<p>Subject Area: You did not bring this up, and I do not wish to get into a social debate, but one of the big factors for why we chose this high school, is that they focus on the basics (Math, Science, History, Literature, Writing, and all other courses that will prepare a student to get into a good school.). From what we hear from friends, the local public school spends far too much time on "other" issues that academics. </p>
<p>Lastly, I do not wish to get into a debate on belief systems. But, I will bring this up as a closer. Both my wife and I had tears come to our eyes when we found out, that on September 11th, 2001, the students at my son's school went to the Gym, and the principal got down on his knees, and led the student body in prayer. We knew, at that point, we had made the right decision.</p>