<p>Gawd… aww
But I dislike seeing few people who get attached to other people for that long thinking that they’ve been his/her friend for that long, and then all of a sudden…the friendship/relationship is gone and they could care less about you afterwards.</p>
<p>I still care about her and all but we haven’t spoken in years :(</p>
<p>Sad… it’s life isn’t it? =/
Yup…</p>
<p>Most friendships are fleeting. </p>
<p>However, if you “play” it right, you’ll have friendships that you’ll maintain throughout the rest of your life. </p>
<p>The rest usually just remain as fond and nostalgic memories.</p>
<p>i wouldn’t kill myself. i lost my grandmother a few weeks ago and i thought it was the end of the world. but you just gotta move on with life and accept reality.</p>
<p>“The rest usually just remain as fond and nostalgic memories.”
sadly, this is how it is right now with MOST of my friendships. i guess that’s what happens when u make all of your friends when you’re little…u grow wayy apart. it actually gets really lonely & depressing-knowing you’re doing so much to keep your friendships together while the other person doesn’t give a damn. just waiting for college to make some friends who are worth my time -_-</p>
<p>I really don’t know what to do right now.
My life is just all over the place.
I cannot find anyone from my school to hang out with on breaks or weekends. (Even though I’ve made 3 new life friends and we don’t really hang out too much unless I plan something.)
My past friends are gone. (nostalgia, they don’t want to be with me anymore, but we had good times together)
Most of the kids in my school, including the girls, are just want to be popular and I’m a loser at the same time.
I’m trying to look foward for a fresh start in the Fall.</p>
<p>^ oh man don’t sweat it =/
to be honest with you, high school friends don’t last forever. a lot of college students i know tell me that you’ll only end up keeping in touch with 1-3; its the college friends that become your family. seriously. you’ll end up going to their weddings and what not. if you’re a senior, i’d suggest you get pumped up for college, reminiscing on the old stuff won’t do any good. and the girls in my school seek popularity too, its nothing different. you’ll meet your crew in college; good luck. =]</p>
<p>^ I understand the idea of that, but the problem is that for someone who was a High School underachiever really bothers me.
As a Junior transfer, that kind of “family friendship” would be difficult for me to manage if I transfer to a top-notch school.</p>
<p>No, I wouldn’t. Boyfriend I might feel like I wanted to, but that would be a passing moment of frustration. I would never.</p>
<p>I wouldn’t even think about it. I adore my friends, but I think suicide would only pop into my head if my sister died, and even then I wouldn’t kill myself.</p>
<p>Honestly, I sort of expect to be somewhat close with all of my friends until I die. Two of them have moved to Michigan and California, and we still maintain our relationships. I don’t know why we’d lose them later.</p>
<p>I might kill myself for some reasons, but losing a friend, no matter how close they were to me, is not one of them.</p>
<p>^ What if it was 3 of them?</p>
<p>How would that change anything?
I love my friends, but I’m not dependent on them for my will to live…</p>
<p>^^No. I would only kill myself if I felt that my life was over.
I can always make new friends. <- Sounds heartless, like I don’t care about my current friends, but is the truth.</p>
<p>I’am darn sick and tired of this “special feeling” around people all the time, and getting blocked on aim/facebook. I bet this is what High School is like… or is it just me.
It’s not my fault that I’m ****ing special around anyone who can’t care much about me.
I hope college will be a fresh start for it.
If I go to a City College, I will be in a town where a bunch of middle school and high school kids I’ve been with will be with me and then I will live in college with these unsociable friends ■■■.
I even sit in my bedroom with my computer and bed, and think about this sometimes. I need to give up on people and girlfriends. I really cannot instill it into me anymore!</p>
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Agree…</p>
<p>I lost the person who was everything…my boyfriend, best friend, and first love all in one. And I’m still here. So no. There’s really no point in that. Why make even more people miserable</p>
<p>There is no good reason to ever kill yourself. Even if your life is absolutely terrible, and there is no possible way (objectively, not just from your standpoint) that it will get better, and the rest of your life will only be pain, suffering, and hardship, until your eventual death, it is still the correct decision to live that life for all it is worth. Suicide is absurd, cowardly, and shameful. My best friend and I have been friends for 12 years now, and if he were to die, of course I would mourn, but I never would so much as consider suicide.</p>
<p>hopefuleage, u don’t have <em>that</em> sob of a story, jesus…</p>
<p>“and the rest of your life will only be pain, suffering, and hardship, until your eventual death, it is still the correct decision to live”</p>
<p>uhh, disagree. that sounds like a nightmare, lmao.</p>