Who pays on the first date?

<p>depends on how the date went</p>

<p>Pay for the whole thing</p>

<p>chill, don’t listen to the false advice. She will then only like you for your money, which you might not have in abundance atm.</p>

<p>chill, the guy above me is a golddigger magnet. the rest of us are talking about chivalry</p>

<p>I don’t really agree with the “whoever asks has to pay” thing. I guess it depends on the way you ask. If its a “Hey, would you like to get a coffee sometime?”, it’s not the same as a “Can I get you a coffee sometime?”.</p>

<p>I think both - guy and girl - should definitely be prepared to pay their half, unless of course someone offers to pay.</p>

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<p>Only if you’re ugly and she’s desperate.</p>

<p>Don’t pay her half. If people get things for free they won’t work hard and get into a good school and get a good job to make money to buy things and have kids who they can raise to work hard to get into a good school and get a good job to make money to buy things and have kids who they can raise to work hard to get into a good school god I’m looping again ****ing CAPITALISM</p>

<p>Well, I paid and she offered to split, but I pulled the old “we’ll split next time” and she was fine with that. Success?</p>

<p>SSSUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS@!!!~~~~</p>

<p><em>Raise eyebrows suggestively</em></p>

<p>Don’t be a cheapo. Be a man and pay for it yourself. You can take a $30 hit to the wallet if you think there is a chance.</p>

<p>Well we can’t know if it was a success or not. How did it go?</p>

<p>If you do get a second date, don’t go for the movie again. if you’re just starting to date you need to be in a place where you can talk and joke and make the experience fun. At a movie, you can’t talk, which can sometimes lead to awkwardness later.</p>

<p>One time I got the girl to pay for all of a first date. She bet me that I’d procrastinate on an assignment I was busy with, and I said, ok but if you’re wrong you have to buy me ice cream.</p>

<p>she did and we made out afterwards.</p>

<p>^if only life were this easy for everyone</p>

<p>man up and pay.</p>

<p>the guy must always at least offer to pay. and be sincere when you offer, don’t be half-hearted about it. As lots of people are saying, if she refuses to let you pay after you ask her twice, then its okay to split.</p>

<p>The one who has the major with more chance in getting a higher salary.</p>