<p>@Millancad</p>
<p>Wow, coming into this thread I thought that I was weird. I guess I’m not so weird after all. :)</p>
<p>I just hope my spouse thinks the same way as me… In my opinion, the first relationships are the purest and best; and there is a direct correlation between prior relationships and divorces.</p>
<p>Edit: To the above poster, well; that’s your problem.I’m not even religious.</p>
<p>^I agree wholeheartedly.
I really can’t understand the mentality of ppl and their motives. What can you possibly achieve by saying things like " I’m refraining from any type of relationship in consideration of the feelings of my future spouse. Frankly, I think that it would be an insult to her to have a relationship with someone who I knew that I would never marry." ?</p>
<p>It gets me very angry. But i am confident that deep down people are the same in terms of the rationale of some choices.</p>
<p>^
Why would that make you angry? Nobody’s saying that it’s wrong. I’m just saying that it would be preferable to me if my spouse never had any type of relationship before.</p>
<p>I already feel guilty enough just from some lustful thoughts that I’ve had before.</p>
<p>I’m baffled regarding how that would upset you. It’s that individual’s choice.</p>
<p>I didn’t mean angry as in “Im gonna rip your head off”. I meant angry as in extremely confused. like one of those looks that say “what the hell are you talking about?”</p>
<p>Hmm…I really don’t think you should feel guilty if you’ve had any lustful thoughts. That’s just human isn’t it? </p>
<p>But there’s no reason for anyone to get “angry” at your decision…</p>
<p>^
I guess so… I still feel like those thoughts were corrupting.</p>
<p>Is college a good time to start dating? Or should you wait until you get a job?</p>
<p>My plan was to just get into a good university and find someone there, since there is- Well, I don’t want to sound overly arrogant here- But I don’t feel like there is anyone worthy of me where I currently am. Not to mention my previous reasons.</p>
<p>College is a sufficient time. Most people find their wives and husbands there. That’s ok, I wouldn’t date anyone at my old high school either except for maybe two people out of 2800. The majority of people there were just materialistic and self-oriented. Maybe it’s the same way with you.</p>
<p>You don’t really have to decide on a specific time period in your life to start dating. You’re unconsciously shutting out all potential “prospects” this way. Just live your life and if you happen to find someone then date them.</p>
<p>Yea. I’ve long since decided that high school relationships are superficial.</p>
<p>I love CC. All of my friends said that I was weird and accused me of being either asexual or gay. Of course, this angered me as that wasn’t the case and I’m very sensitive towards terms like “gay” being used as an insult, as there is nothing wrong with being that way at all. I’m happy to see that there are so many people who think the same way as me.</p>
<p>:)</p>
<p>I haven’t :(</p>
<p>Honestly, I have no idea what I want. Not necessarily deep relations in high school… yet there’s still this one girl at my school/friend</p>
<p>Mostly… I’m just confused. It’s a lot harder than everything else…</p>
<p>I totally disagree with haters’ comments. I am generally indifferent in my perception of girls, except that they are generally nice.</p>
<p>However, when its a girl I really like, I just enjoy their presence and talking to them, I don’t see them as “sexual objects” tbh.</p>
<p>Actually, +1 to what Advanced Lawlz said.</p>
<p>I just really enjoy being around the girl I like.
Less “sexual” as opposed to I want to hug her.</p>
<p>Aww:) I agree with the two posters above me.</p>
<p>I do agree with his analysis of shy people though.</p>
<p>haha I haven’t kissed anyone either </p>
<p>In 7th grade I fell in love with this girl I’d known since kindergarten…but it was almost a best friend thing.</p>
<p>I like someone now and it’s very weird. I like being around her but it also feels incredibly awkward.</p>
<p>Edit: Warts is the strangest person I’ve met online! I don’t know why 
It/she/he is very charismatic in a warts kind of way…</p>
<p>like someone now and it’s very weird. I like being around her but it also feels incredibly awkward</p>
<p>I feel the exact same way! If the girl i like starts talking really serious with me, what does that mean?
I mean she always talks in a lighthearted manner to everybody else except me! Is that a good sign or bad sign?
I swear, everytime i see her, she’s always laughing at what other people tell her and then when i talk to her, we have these really serious discussions. Why can’t i make her laugh?!!!@@!!</p>
<p>OMG me too! I can never make her laugh except for the random “hahas”. </p>
<p>I always “play it safe” and talk seriously and about really boring stuff when I’m with the girl I like!!!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.</p>
<p>^We’re most definitely in the same boat–only if we knew the right direction to sail. </p>
<p>Pun intended.</p>
<p>I wish I had a guy friend who would talk about serious stuff =</p>
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<p>I’m really glad I’m not the only one who feels that way. I seriously can’t see myself dating ANYONE I know. I live in one of the worst states for education, though, so that probably plays a factor since I put a lot of importance on intelligence =</p>
<p>My boyfriend and I have been together since sophomore year of high school, and are going to stay together next year even if we are thousands of miles apart.
Just for those who don’t think its possible to fall in love in high school - trust me, it is.</p>