Why do chicks in college go for Guy B over Guy A?

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<p>Guy A:
-Drinks in moderation
-Does not smoke
-Does not have multiple sex partners
-On the president's list
-Has a job or internship lined up
-Planning to head to law school
-Self-made man with blue-collar work ethic who rose up in the world on his own merit
-Soft-spoken, but self-assured; low-key and humble
-Don't talk about it--be about it
-Stands up for principle even when it's unpopular to do so
-Will age well because he takes good care of himself</p>

<p>Guy B:
-Drinks himself stupid every chance he gets
-Smokes so bad he has enlarged holes in his nose
-Treats women like garbage and uses them to pad his stats
-Has W's all over his report card
-Zero ambition after college
-Living off mommy and daddy's trust fund
-Cocky, loud and arrogant; always seeking attention
-Spits mad game but has ZERO substance to back it up
-Spineless sheep who's influenced by social trends just like any other drone
-WIll be dead before age 40 because of his over-the-top lifestyle</p>

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<p>Not all of us would go for guy B. That’s just some lame stereotype about college girls. Many of us still have brains.</p>

<p>Besides that, I’ve never met a guy A.</p>

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<p>I would go for guy C: A happy medium. Guy A and Guy B are too far one way on the spectrum or me.</p>

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<p>hit + quit guy B</p>

<p>i don’t think guy A exists</p>

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<p>I’m guy A without the excessiveness, but girls still go for guy B.</p>

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<p>Definitely dating close to a guy A, met him freshman year and we are now juniors. Though he’s going to med school, not law school, and I don’t know what the presidents list is.</p>

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<p>Guy B is probably more fun to be around than you, and the girl is probably more looking to have a good time than for anything long term. So stop being so dull.</p>

<p>For example, the majority of girls in college aren’t going to care too much about any of there:

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<p>These could actually work against you

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<p>So at the end of the day you’re a non-alcoholic non-smoker. So what. You also sound kind of like a prick for even mentioning stuff like</p>

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<p>Basically if you want to beat out guy B now you have to actually have an interesting personality, and not be so condescending. If you said stuff like what you listed here to the girl you were going after I wouldn’t blame her for running away. So speak up a little bit, be a little cocky, stop judging people like that and forget about whoever it was that turned you down.</p>

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<p>+1 to chuy’s post</p>

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<p>I’m about 90% Guy A and 10% Guy B. Really, I don’t think either of them exists, there’s always a medium, and girls lean towards either one. Now, that said, I do believe that girls would lean for a guy with B’s stats, I don’t know why, I once read an article how girls are genetically programmed to go for the “bad” guy type because it’s usually a sign of healthy genes or some bull**** like that. Admit it, though, it does happen. The article then said that eventually girls as they get older, realize that A’s have more secure jobs and are better people, but only as they become a little more mature. So I’m banking on the B’s getting drunk out of their minds and crashing their beat-up Chevy Trucks whenever they go out so that I could afterwards roll up in my Lamborghini Gallardo and pick them up.</p>

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<p>Because Guy A is no fun and has no confidence and sits around on the computer making threads complaining about Guy B when Guy B is out pickin up chicks.</p>

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<p>haha i consider myself a little bit of both. Wait till they have no job after college and you make a good salary and girls will be waiting for you imo.</p>

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<p>Attraction is about who catches our interest, not about any of the things you listed. We do get better at it as we get older.</p>

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<p>I feel that the OP’s assumption is so 90s. Girls these days actually have self-respect and at the same time prefer someone who can provide for them. In fact I don’t know any non-ghetto college girl who would pick B over A. B is the loser on the streets no one likes.</p>

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<p>Probably because “Guy B” isn’t complaining about girls on the internet.</p>

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<p>guy b is taller most likely</p>

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<p>guy a is too tall.</p>

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<p>haha this quesiton is too easy.</p>

<p>girls want a challenging, funny, critical and mysterious guy.<br>
personality is 85%, looks 15% for them.</p>

<p>deny it all you want girls, its the truth. </p>

<p>the end.</p>

<p><em>edit</em> oh and some arrogance helps too ;)</p>

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<p>^I’m likin’ it.</p>

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<p>and we’ll have the (jealous) guys who rant in despair-
“All that other guy does is call her fat and beat her up. And then doesn’t even tell her where he goes and won’t call her when he said he would. And then she would get all upset and try to call him and cry when he doesn’t pick up.” etc etc the list goes on.</p>

<p>WHY do these girls stay with these guys? This might sound so whack to all you regular people here, but its the truth. Its evolutionary. It’s a long explanation so I’ll shorten it. Basically, girls want a “good” father for their children. Guys in the situation above are seen by women as powerful and in control. The “always not calling” part shows he’s independent and/or has other women to see (which makes him even more desirable, because we all know girls are ubercompetitive and HATE not knowing). </p>

<p>How do I know this? because I am the “other guy”. </p>

<p>Girls, you know its true.
Guys, you better believe it.</p>

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<p>“Girls, you know its true.”</p>

<p>aha they will deny it to the death though.</p>