<p>Girls play and date Guy B but they marry Guy A!</p>
<p>I am not a “college chick” but was single (again) until about 5 years ago.</p>
<p>In a nutshell, amtc is right. Just like guys flock after “easy” girls, but usually don’t marry them, girls are not much different.</p>
<p>Wait until after graduation… things will change.</p>
<p>You mean girls will settle for the insecure boring guy because he has a good job?</p>
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<p>That’d be real cool if it were true. The problem is that Girl B is much, much more commonly found than Girl A. Thats why you see so many Guy a’s moaning and groaning on the internet(and in real life) with threads like this and fewer girls doing the same. Its just a sad fact-most young girls like fun and confidence, and guy B offers it more commonly.</p>
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<p>Yeah, but not always. Many Guy A’s never get girlfriends, or have comparatively fewer relationships not because they are just really monogamous, but because they have fewer opportunities. Additionally, this idea of a small group of Girl B’s cycling through is not universal at all. Guy B will often go through many girls, not just a small cycle, because he is simply more attractive to a larger group of females than Guy A.</p>
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<p>And some Guy A’s are what they are for this very reason. They do hold back and typically seek commitment more often than not when they pursue a girl. The thing is, they never are able to get that girl.</p>
<p>Why? The majority of girls find Guy B more attractive. </p>
<p>Either way, my advice to Guy A is simply to be yourself, deal with the negatives, and wait. You may get lucky and find one of those rare girls who is somewhat attractive and prefers Guy A over Guy B. If not, then so be it. Live your life and be confident about how you do it. You will win eventually, and win big.</p>
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Provider … ? As in what exactly?</p>
<p>Be like James Bond; highly intelligent and badass.</p>
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<p>Or you could just be guy B for now and then guy A 10 years down the road. Really, its not going to hurt you to act like guy B. Even if it detracts from your study time, you’re still likely to get the same grades given that you study at least half time as academics is mostly IQ based.</p>
<p>Well here’s what I say bi… right now you’re in your prime and ya only live once…might as well live a little and rack em up while ya can ehhhhhhh</p>
<p><em>rowdy, obnoxious male toast</em></p>
<p>jk…maybe</p>
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<p>no, guy A trying to be guy B is really awkward and annoying and even less likely to get girls</p>
<p>See, the problem is that you’re a d*uche. No girl that you’d ever want to bang even remotely gives a isht that you’re on the presidents dick-rider list.</p>
<p>^ exactly, guy A sounds like he’s writing a Chance Me? thread for himself…just be like Guy C:</p>
<p>confident, but not some cocky dbag
nice, but not a pushover who puts girls on a pedestal
smart, but not pedantic about it
sense of humor
friendly and can have fun
basic hygiene/smells nice</p>
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<p>being athletic, hot, really funny, having good game, all that stuff is great but if you’re just Guy C it should still be easy to get girls in college</p>
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<p>Neil Strauss did it. And actors become different people all the time. Look, I’m not saying it’s easy; I’m just saying that it can, and should, be done.</p>
<p>reminds me of this thread:</p>
<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-confidential-cafe/772641-who-would-you-rather-date.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-confidential-cafe/772641-who-would-you-rather-date.html</a></p>
<p>and “the game” is about as real as those diet plans that will lose you 150 pounds.</p>
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<p>Maybe. I would like to think that people’s personalities can be molded. My personality is different than from a few years ago(no doubt due to hanging out with diff ppl). But sure, some guys will probably never attract females. Maybe this is nature’s way of weeding out bad genes.</p>
<p>“the game is about as real as those diet plans that will lose you 150 lbs.”</p>
<p>Yes, and both have the same benefit.</p>
<p>That ‘miracle diet’ plan will get you off your fat a** and ‘the game’ will get you out of your god-d*** house and talking to girls.</p>
<p>My boyfriend is guy A with the exception of ambitions for college. That’s fine with me because he’s making something of his life without.</p>
<p>+1 to chuy’s post</p>
<p>"Provider … ? As in what exactly? "</p>
<p>and in rolls the feminist just on time.</p>
<p>Guy A is boring. I bet he’s nice and likes people, too. And worse, has no desire to destroy the world or at least enslave it with the help of manic robots.</p>