@ThankYouforHelp You do not know how old I am, or even my gender for that matter. So don’t make assumptions. Regardless, there is a thing called common sense. And that is not exclusive to one gender or the other.
I agree though we better move on.
UW-Madison and UIUC are on the Princeton Review list of best Party Schools
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/uw-madison-top-party-school_us_57c09881e4b04193420f1b9c
But all of the schools on your list meet your criteria.
An important question is are you a “low income student" (that is, does your family make less than 65k for a family of 4? IIRC, I could be wrong). If so, you may end up paying less at USC than Michigan.