<p>Cangel:</p>
<p>Amherst
Bowdoin
Swarthmore
Hamilton
Connecticut
Trinity U
CWRU </p>
<p>said that, although it is unusual, they would waive the on-campus requirement. I was a bit surprized with CWRU and Trinity U, sice they required 3 years of on-campus living. As for Bowdoin & Swat, they too would waive residency requirements for my four years. Hamilton & Connecticut recommend living on-campus but do not require it for non-traditional applicants. And, Amherst said that I could get a break, if I apply for an exception early enough.</p>
<p>As for:
Williams
Haverford
Colgate
Colby</p>
<p>I am waiting to hear back from them or will ask again when I attend another college fair this weekend in Seattle (Colgate & Colby). Hopefully, I'll be able to get a waiver at these four colleges. Otherwise, my college list will look a little...short. Just six schools...much like the number on your D's list.</p>
<p>As for Rhodes, the admissions representative said, but was not sure, that the only way I could recieve a waiver for housing is by living with parents or relatives in the area. I was also told it would be unlikely that a request for a single would be granted unless I had other special needs. That being said, the Rhodes official said that sometimes exceptions are made--although rarely. He did say that after the first-year, I could apply to live off-campus, and would likely be granted permission.</p>
<p>I thought about keeping Rhodes on my list (as I really liked it), but because I'm still unsure of whether off-campus housing or having a single on-campus is an option, I had to make a hard call. Since my application to Rhodes is complete, if I find that they will be able to grant me an exception, it would be easy for me to place it back on the list. As for the others (Vassar, Vandy, Emory, Macalester), I've already withdrew my applications.</p>
<p>It's funny, but your D's reaction to schools that may be ranked higher than Rhodes is similar to mine. I don't know if it's cold feet, but Amherst as an ED school is not as clearcut a first choice as it was in August. In fact, my friends think my list is crazy with respect to which schools are on the top and on the bottom (with the exception of Amherst). My parents are surprized that Carleton, Wesleyan, Oberlin, Pomona, and a few others are not even in the running. They don't like the gap between Amherst and my next few schools.</p>
<p>Luckily for me, I met with an admissions officer at Bowdoin. It made all the difference in the world, as it was previously somewhere in the middle. Likewise, some of the top colleges fell to the bottom. After the initial shock of how my list came together, I got comfortable with it. Except for the housing questions, which threw me a little, and a bit of second guessing about my ED app, I think I've really begun to appreciate fit, more so than I did previously (and I was already an advocate of drawing up a list based in part on fit).</p>
<p>Anyhow, thank you for the vote of confidence and your always insightful advice. Let me know how everything is going with your D's applications (although, I don't think she'll have any trouble with any of her college choices).</p>
<p>:)</p>
<p>PS--I read the other post on the Parents forum, definately very interesting...especially because I found out about the housing questions on Halloween. Must have been the spirits having some fun. Spooky! :)</p>