<p>pmvd,<br>
I’m going to suggest you take this test,
[Wired</a> 9.12: Take The AQ Test](<a href=“http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/9.12/aqtest.html]Wired”>http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/9.12/aqtest.html)
and if you score is hi, which I suspect it might be, go and get tested by a qualified PHD for Aspergers Syndrome, which is quite often found to be the explanation for “social problems” in intelligent, introverted people. An inability or difficulty in interacting socially with others in a fluid, easy manner, is a hallmark of Aspergers. You may very well not be depressed, but if there is a reason- In Aspergers the brain is wired differently- for your difficulties with social interactions with others, then identifying it may be a first step to figuring out what you can change. People can get better at social interactions with others, but it takes practice, the more the better.</p>