<p>Question, I know some people have relationships in high school and some have crushes. </p>
<p>Would/Should a couple go to the same college or should a guy/girl with a crush on someone go to the same college.</p>
<p>Couple, maybe if the college they both want to go to is a quality school. Not a fan of one or the other turning down better scholastic offers just to stay with a gf/bf. </p>
<p>Crush, definitely not unless he or she was already wanting to go to the same school. </p>
<p>I mean things happen and if you make your college decision solely based on where your bf or gf is going, where do you stand if the relationship doesn’t last?</p>
<p>a couple doesn’t have to go to the same school, i know a lot of couples that go to different schools and still going strong (:</p>
<p>and i don’t think you should ever follow someone to the same school if you ONLY have a small crush. i wouldn’t follow my boyfriend to college if it didn’t have my major.</p>
<p>I’ve been in long-term relationships before in high school (and im not talking about those 5-6 month flings…I mean 2 years+) and I would never consider going to the same school as my boyfriend/crush, unless we just happened to be going to the same school out of our individual desires. I would also be quite unnerved if my boyfriend/crush wanted to go to the college I was planning on attending because of me. Going to college means being out on your own and being an adult, and I think that even if you love someone, you still need to let them become their own person without you so close to them.</p>
<p>Relationship: All the graduating couples from my school who decided to go to the same college individually wanted to go to the college. (My school newspaper does a feature on such couples every year.)</p>
<p>Crush: Please no.</p>
<p>Why not? Pursuing love is a noble cause. As for caring about what college you want to go to? It doesn’t really matter if you push yourself in your studies and enjoy what you do.</p>
<p>In terms of relationships, if people want to stay together they by all means should. In terms of crushes, unless like others have already stated, unless you’re going for individual reasons, it makes no sense. You’re going to meet so many new people in college (and your crush will too), and if you don’t allow yourself to meet new people with an open mind it may end up holding you back from meeting someone even more fitting for yourself (and likewise with your crush).</p>
<p>Hm… Couple, perhaps. If they both wanted to go to the school individually, and both ended up being accepted :)</p>
<p>Crush, of course not. I would not follow my crushes around to possibly become a couple. If he goes to the same school as me, great, but that’s a pure accident. xD</p>
<p>Hell no to both. Unless you’ve been going out for 2+ years.</p>
<p>It worked out well for Corey and Topanga :')</p>